副标题: How to Thrive in an Extrovert World
作者: Marti Olsen Laney Psy.D.
出版社: Workman Publishing Company
出版年: 2002-2-1
页数: 330
定价: USD 14.95
装帧: Paperback
ISBN: 9780761123699
作者: Marti Olsen Laney Psy.D.
出版社: Workman Publishing Company
出版年: 2002-2-1
页数: 330
定价: USD 14.95
装帧: Paperback
ISBN: 9780761123699
内容简介 · · · · · ·
At least one out of four people prefers to avoid the limelight, tends to listen more than they speak, feels alone in large groups, and requires lots of private time to restore their energy. They're introverts, and here is the book to help them boost their confidence while learning strategies for successfully living in an extrovert world. After dispelling common myths about intr... (展开全部)
At least one out of four people prefers to avoid the limelight, tends to listen more than they speak, feels alone in large groups, and requires lots of private time to restore their energy. They're introverts, and here is the book to help them boost their confidence while learning strategies for successfully living in an extrovert world. After dispelling common myths about introverts-they're not necessarily shy, aloof, or antisocial--"The Introvert Advantage" explains the real issues. Introverts are hardwired from birth to focus inward, so outside stimulation-chitchat, phone calls, parties, office meetings-can easily become "too much." "The Introvert Advantage" dispels introverts' belief that something is wrong with them and instead helps them recognize their inner strengths-their analytical skills, ability to think outside the box, and strong powers of concentration. It helps readers understand introversion and shows them how to determine where they fall on the introvert/extrovert continuum. It provides tools to improve relationships with partners, kids, colleagues, and friends, offering dozens of tips, including 10 ways to talk less and communicate more, 8 ways to showcase your abilities at work, how to take a child's temperament temperature, and strategies for socializing. Finally, it shows how to not just survive, but thrive-how to take advantage of the introvert's special qualities to create a life that's just right for the introvert temperament, to discover new ways to expand their energy reserves, and even how, when necessary, to confidently become a temporary extrovert.
作者简介 · · · · · ·
Dr. Marti Olsen Laney, is a marriage and family therapist. Marti has earned a doctorate degree in psychoanalysis, is an author, teacher and much sought-after public speaker (with a good amount of preparation time) on subjects close to her heart, such as the phenomena of introversion. She is in private practice in Calabasas, California.
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Ch.2 Sec.4
酸雨 (我的侄女很可爱)
Introverts don't talk for talk's sake. When they speak, they speak their mind. To make myself more socializing, I have been talking meaninglessly for a long while, burying the real me. (更多)
To make myself more socializing, I have been talking meaninglessly for a long while, burying the real me. (收起)Introverts don't talk for talk's sake. When they speak, they speak their mind.
2011-12-05 13:55:46 回应
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Ch.2 Sec.3
酸雨 (我的侄女很可爱)
Rather than being self-centered, introverts are often really the opposite. Our ability ot focus on our internal world and reflect on what we are feeling and experiencing allows us to understand the external world and other human beings better. What appears to be self-centeredness is actually the very talent that provides the capacity to understand what it's like to put ourselves in someone else's ... (更多)
(收起)Rather than being self-centered, introverts are often really the opposite. Our ability ot focus on our internal world and reflect on what we are feeling and experiencing allows us to understand the external world and other human beings better. What appears to be self-centeredness is actually the very talent that provides the capacity to understand what it's like to put ourselves in someone else's shoes.
2011-12-05 13:55:12 回应
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Ch.2 Sec.4
酸雨 (我的侄女很可爱)
Introverts don't talk for talk's sake. When they speak, they speak their mind. To make myself more socializing, I have been talking meaninglessly for a long while, burying the real me. (更多)
To make myself more socializing, I have been talking meaninglessly for a long while, burying the real me. (收起)Introverts don't talk for talk's sake. When they speak, they speak their mind.
2011-12-05 13:55:46 回应
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Ch.2 Sec.3
酸雨 (我的侄女很可爱)
Rather than being self-centered, introverts are often really the opposite. Our ability ot focus on our internal world and reflect on what we are feeling and experiencing allows us to understand the external world and other human beings better. What appears to be self-centeredness is actually the very talent that provides the capacity to understand what it's like to put ourselves in someone else's ... (更多)
(收起)Rather than being self-centered, introverts are often really the opposite. Our ability ot focus on our internal world and reflect on what we are feeling and experiencing allows us to understand the external world and other human beings better. What appears to be self-centeredness is actually the very talent that provides the capacity to understand what it's like to put ourselves in someone else's shoes.
2011-12-05 13:55:12 回应
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最重要的是做真实的自己
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- Jay(精进) 幸福快乐的首要之点,就在于一个人愿意成为他自己。 《内向者优势》是一本很温暖的书 作者Marti用很亲切的笔调 细致地描述了内向性格的种种特点和优势 并鼓励内向者从心底里认识、认同、欣赏和传播自己的特质 从而——在外向的世界中获得成功 这也是本书的副标题 这是一个独特而让我赞叹不已的视角 似乎之...... (16回应)2009-07-13 64/65有用来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
快与慢
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- Moon 对内向者的偏见可休矣! 现代职场要排斥内向的人?我们生活在一个外向的世界,我们被告诉内向是一种缺陷,真是这样的吗? 从《内向者的优势》中我们了解到内向和外向完全是由您的基因决定的,简单的说外向的人思考的路径很短能够做出很多短时的反应,而内向的人思考的路径很长往往需要很长时间。所以在我们熟悉的场景中,外向的人能够在聚...... (9回应)2008-07-15 25/27有用来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
做自己的太阳
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- Frenda 对一个男生表白被拒之后,忽然觉得今后没有他的日子将会暗淡无光,生活该怎么继续?于是我开始自我反思自我救赎。足不出户好多天想啊想啊想,总结出来还是得靠自己生活自己闯荡啊。有他的日子里我觉得我的生活都被他点亮了。我以后得做到不依靠任何人都能自己过好日子,自己做自己的太阳。我得打开社交圈子,一方面为了尽量忘掉他,一方面为了找...... (8回应)2012-01-24 3/3有用来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
《内向者优势 》笔记(第三章为主)
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- Veronica(少说多做,重在执行。) 首先谢谢小K童鞋的推荐。对于一个I90,有时候一天不说十句话的人,我是应该看看这本书了。 内向者的一些特点(优点): 他们独立的工作、斟酌作出决定、搞得创造性、富于想象、有智慧和善于体贴人。他们是观察者。他们的工作经常影响到许多人,他们有说出不寻常事情的勇气和远见。 独立思考、高度集中注意力、创造性地工作的毅...... (9回应)2011-11-16 5/5有用来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
重读《内向者优势》
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- bigjoe(“危机”不过是一个卡通) 《内向者优势》这本书买了两年,看了差不多有5遍以上,实在是太喜欢的一本书。 不仅仅是内容的精彩,更重要的是作者的笔法非常出色。 和克里希那穆提等专业严谨抽象的文风相比,这本书作者仿佛是一位智者,用她的经验和感受温暖的触及读者心灵深处,在介绍内容同时,给与了读者安慰与鼓励。 我特别喜欢这本书的开头...... (22回应)2009-11-29 22/23有用来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
让内向的人接纳自己
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- 小清龙 ►(溜溜 鬼点子王:) “好的”性格,不是指“外向的”或者“内向的”性格。 目前基本上认为,四种气质,多血质,粘液质,抑郁质,胆汁质是先天决定的。连教科书上也会写着,气质的类型与成就的可能无关。 对呀,就像中国质朴而古老的五行元素论,金,木,水,火,土,也对应着不同外形,脾性的人。我比较接近木形人,也就对应着西方气质学说里的粘液质或者......2012-02-15 来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
内向何时成为一种“罪”
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- Cの奏(I AM SHERLOCKED) 写简历时,很少会有人在自我介绍那栏里面写性格内向,即使不说谎去写自己性格外向,也至少会写句“乐观开朗”。 在众多暴力杀人案件中,对于凶手的描述经常会出现相同的特点:即性格内向。不禁让人谈内向而色变,即便没有性命之忧,也会惧其三分。 这本书名虽然叫做《内向者优势》,其实是在说如何才能“不劣势” 想要发展成优...... (1回应)2012-02-08 来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
受益匪浅,透彻很多!
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- 楊朦梦(迷迷糊糊,寻寻觅觅。) 朋友介绍,当初没在意,只是实在闲了,就拿来看了两眼,以为又是什么无聊的俗套理论,没想到从一开始看《内向者优势》就深深吸引我了,我相信这本书可以解开很多人的困惑,我知道很多人和我一样,就正如书上所描述的一样。如果可以,真的应该让全世界所有人都看看,看了之后,明白了很多问题,为什么自己这么“不入流”,和他人之间的关系为什么......2011-12-17 来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
觉得自己性格内向的同学都可以看看
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- 四季 在这个极力推崇外向性格的社会中,内向者应该更加了解自己性格的力量,更加安心做“内向者”,同时也深刻了解自己性格的弱点,扬长避短。这本书写得很深入。 作为一个内向的人,书中对内向者的一些描述极为精妙,和我许多时候的心理动态太一致了。 同时,这也是一本严谨的有学术价值的书,不是那种随便说教的书。......2011-12-02 来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
很NB的一本书
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- Cynosure(主人!帽子买大了!!) 书还没有看完,却已经有一种强烈的认同感。 是的,我内向;因此也遭遇了不少痛苦,甚至是自责。 人生来不是要受折磨的,有痛苦就会有人去反思、去找解决的方法。 内向之于外向,就如同N年前同性恋之于异性恋一样; 当书中的观点慢慢被人了解和接受时,内向也会慢慢被社会正视并且恰当地对待。......2011-11-29 来自 上海华东师范大学2008版
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