Rule III: Do not hide unwanted things in the fog - What is the fog?

Imagine, more precisely, that you are so afraid that you will not allow yourself even to know what you want. Knowing would simultaneously mean hoping, and your hopes have been dashed. You have your reasons for maintaining your ignorance. You are afraid, perhaps, that there is nothing worth wanting; you are afraid that if you specify what you want precisely you will simultaneously discover (and all too clearly) what constitutes failure; you are afraid that if you define failure and then fail, you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt that it was you that failed, and that it was your fault. 
So, you do not allow yourself to know what you want. You manage this by refusing to think it through. You are happy, satisfied, and engages sometimes and unhappy, frustrated, and nihilistic other times, but you will not enquire deeply into why, because then you would know, and then you would encounter yet-again shattered hope and confirmed disappointment. [...]
未经思考的人生是不值得过的，而有人也说过度审视的人生是过不下去的。如何在其中获得平衡？
但是没有意义的人生，充斥着混沌与逃避的被动的人生，同样也是过不下去的。 
思考，做规划，尝试并且碰壁，让每天有些盼头。人生的意义是需要不断发掘与实践的。
主动拨开迷雾，直面可能会让人受伤的现实。与其被动地被生活毒打，或许可以正面反抗一下。