Willfulness and feminist subjectivity

要带来改变就必须要让别人不舒服，女权主义就是要让别人不舒服，我不舒服你们也别想好过
A feminist history is affective: we pick up those feelings that are not supposed to be felt because they get in the way of an expectation of who we are and what life should be. No wonder feminism acquires such a negative charge: being against happiness, being against life. It is not simply that we first become feminists and later become killjoys. Rather, to become feminist is to kill other people’s joy; to get in the way of other people’s investments.