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“There are guys who grow up thinking they will settle down some distant time in the future, and there are guys who are ready for marriage as soon as they meet the right person. The former bore me, mainly because they are pathetic; and the latter, quite frankly, are hard to find. But it is the serious ones I am interested in, and it takes time to find a guy like that whom I am equally interested in. I mean, if the relationship cannot survive the long term, why on earth would it be worth my time and energy for the short term? ”