Sunny对《乐未央》的笔记(1)

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读过 乐未央

乐未央
  • 书名: 乐未央
  • 作者: 亦舒
  • 页数: 181
  • 出版社: 新世界出版社
  • 出版年: 2007-1
  • 结婚后

    人类最大的缺憾是群体生活者。一旦衣食住行四样基本必需品获得满足,天性便会自然而然希企寻找伴侣,一切烦恼,从这里开始。

    你看,一只海螺就不用面对这种问题,比较起来,自在得多,所以在卫斯理的故事中,有一个富翁,得外星人协助,变成一只螺,夜夜在一缸水中唱歌。摆脱了牵绊的他,快乐似神仙。

    而人就不能如此,非考虑结婚不可,有一句口头禅,凡见有纠缠不清的人事关系,便摇头叹息曰:惨过结婚。

    年轻的兄弟姐妹们多多少少有点憧憬,以为婚后可以解决许多问题,生活起居有人照顾不特已,更经济划算,试想想夫与妻同时有这种想法,两人都会赢,谁做输家?

    结婚,只是一种生活方式,该结婚就结婚。最反对人家问:婚后快乐吗?这同快乐有什么关系。正等于辞工后,同样有天真活泼的人士问:不必上班,快乐吗?快乐同世上一切都没有任何关系。排除这个幻象之后,生活容易过得多。至于结婚后的真相,蔡老澜一直说:“好比黑社会,其间秘密,不能向外人道。”

    ----

    女人,前半生辛劳已足,后半手,应爱惜自身,量力而为。接吻可以选错对象,发脾气则不可。人的一生短暂,精力有限,时间用在何处是看得见的。

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