Sunny对《Nobody's Victim》的笔记(1)

Nobody's Victim
  • 书名: Nobody's Victim
  • 作者: Carrie Goldberg
  • 副标题: Fighting Psychos, Stalkers, Pervs, and Trolls
  • 页数: 304
  • 出版社: Plume
  • 出版年: 2019-8-13
  • 第218页
    But also true is the fact that my decision to step away from the edge set in motion my year of metamorphosis. It was a year of late-night strategizing, focusing, and going to battle, not only for my own safety but also for my clients. Nothing mattered but the fight. Somewhere along the ways, I stopped inventorying the men who had fucked me over. I quit admonishing myself for making stupid choices and bad mistakes. I stopped seeing myself as a victim and reclaimed my control. That year I discovered the transformative power of ighting back.
    "I want to make a change in the world,"
    Identify your greatest problem. Find your biggest obstacle, that things that makes you feel most powerless, and ask yourself,'How do I fix this?' That's the fight you should devote your life to."
    The world is filled with assholes, trolls, psychos, and pervs. These are the monsters who make us feel weak. But we don't have to be victims. And we don't need to fight alone. Find your fellow warriors - the advocates, survivors, and students working at think tanks or nonprofits, as legal scholars or in schools - and arm yourseves with bullhorns, pussy hats, placards, and petitions.
    Strategize at conferences, in coffee shops or in your tiny apartment with documents spread across your living room floor. Study the organization or structure that gives your nemeses power. Figure out how the systems work and what it takes to dismantle them. Hold people, institutions, and companies accountable. If your enemies have the law on their side, find legal loopholds and charge through them. Be creative and relentless. And be good to yourself. This is hard work. We surviviors, activits, and allies are just getting started untangling the harm wrought by eons of abuse, secrecy, shaming, and oppression.
    It's a new day. WE are going to take over and make things right. We will destroy SEction 230 of the CDA and fuck with tech bros' algorithms. We will erect statues that depict us and write statutes that protect us. We will win elections, change the face of Congress, and move into the White House. Our heels are clicking down the warpath. To all you psychos, stalkers, trolls, and pervs, your time is up.
    WE may have been victimized once, but we're not victims.
    We are an army of warriors and we won't back down.
    2019-09-20 10:08:48 回应

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