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    “我已经不像年轻时那样，总是惶惶地想向别人证明自己，甚至故意去吃亏，生怕别人怀疑我表里不一。因为我意识到自己想讨好所有人的冲动是盲目和徒劳的。每个人都会以己度人，你永远无法让一个不真诚的人相信你的...

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    蓦然间，二十年来的往事又上心头。晴美再次感慨，紧随时代的潮流对商界人士是何等重要。有时候，甚至是天堂和地狱的差别。

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    人世间不会有小说或童话故事那样的结局：“从此，他们永远快快活活地一起过日子。” 人间没有单纯的快乐。快乐总夹带着烦恼和忧虑。 人间也没有永远。我们一生坎坷，暮年才有了一个可以安顿的居处。但老病相催，...
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    接下来就是领导号召鸣放了。锺书曾到中南海亲耳听到毛主席的讲话，觉得是真心诚意的号召鸣放，并未想到“引蛇出洞”。但多年后看到各种记载，听到各种论说，方知是经过长期精心策划的事，是我们对“政治”悚然畏惧。
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    “三反”是知识分子第一次受到的改造运动，对我们是“触及灵魂的”。我们闭塞顽固，以为“江山好改，本性难移”，人不能改造。可是我们惊愕地发现，“发动起来的群众”，就像通了电的机器人，都随着按钮统一行动...
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    其实，“忌”他很没有必要。锺书在工作中总很驯良地听从领导；同事间他能合作，不冒尖，不争先，肯帮忙，也很有用。
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    我们上海沦陷期间，饱经忧患，也见到世态炎凉。我们夫妇常把日常的感受，当作美酒般浅斟低酌，细细品尝。这种滋味值得品尝。因为忧患孕育智慧。锺书曾说：“一个人二十不狂没志气，三十犹狂是无识妄人。”他引用...
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    能和锺书对等玩的人不多，不相投的就会嫌锺书刻薄了。我们和不相投的人保持距离，又好像是骄傲了。我们年轻不谙世故，但是最谙世故、最会做人的同样遭非议。锺书和我就以此自解。

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    It's so easy to say yes. Yes to another feature, yes to an overly optimistic deadline, yes to a mediocre design. Soon, the stack of things you've said yes to grows so tall you can't even see the th...
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    We're all terrible estimators. We think we can guess how long something will take, when we really have no idea. We see everything going according to a best-case scenario, without the delays that in...
  • Good enough is fine
    Problems can usually be solved with simple, mundane solutions. That means there's no glamorous work. You don't get to show off your amazing skills. You just build something that gets the job done a...
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