I have to say this book is like 'Men from Mars, Women from Venus' --
Original, essay-like, somehow easy to read and hard to practice.
One funny part is that the author is divorced now. But it doesn't make the book worthless.
I don't totally agree with what it says in the book yet it somehow give you an idea, the ultimate idea people sometimes just can't realize it: be yourself, focus and enjoy life with or without a man.
Sounds mission impossible huh? I do feel that way too.
It's really hard to hide your passion once you like/love someone, and somehow such behavior might make your partner feeling trapped or insecure, and then they start running from you.
But life's like this. You just have to keep some rules in mind, and then practice and practice.