what's the meaning of memories?
"The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It's the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared."
Various memories is filling our daily life. They could be gotten by experience or listening. And what is the exactly meaning of memories?
“It gives us wisdom and needs to be shared.” the writer tells us.
In order to establish a utopia to live in, people in the novel chose to distance themselves from all strong feelings so that they would not be hurt by anything horrible. Consequently they even chose to give up the feeling called “love” so that they would not be grieved any more.
However, at the same time when they gave up memorizing and experiencing a variety of things, they abandoned the possibility of happiness life. Without going through hell, happiness seems meaningless to us. because happiness and sadness are relative concepts, just like large and small.
On the other hand, sharing memories is a method to promoting relationship. While you pouring out your misery to your friends, you will be comforted and grateful. While you sharing an interesting experience to someone else, both of you will be fulfilled.
Suffering does NOT ennoble the characters. Sometimes it even makes people petty. But it tells people what does happiness mean. Experiences does NOT design the characters, either. Sometimes it have a marked impact. But it play a role of relater more often and we can choose the ways of comprehending. Based on our comprehending, we can define our feelings and design our own life.
一切以欲望为前提而存在的乌托邦都终会被毁灭。为了保障它的运行，必然会有牺牲者，必然有人来处理阴暗的一面才能来维系表面的和谐。为了构建乌托邦，制定的规则越繁琐越精确就越是无情。人类一代代传承下来的，除了规则，还应该有多彩的记忆和温暖的爱。
“没有勇气就得不到幸福，不经过斗争就不能完成德行。”——《爱弥儿》
Various memories is filling our daily life. They could be gotten by experience or listening. And what is the exactly meaning of memories?
“It gives us wisdom and needs to be shared.” the writer tells us.
In order to establish a utopia to live in, people in the novel chose to distance themselves from all strong feelings so that they would not be hurt by anything horrible. Consequently they even chose to give up the feeling called “love” so that they would not be grieved any more.
However, at the same time when they gave up memorizing and experiencing a variety of things, they abandoned the possibility of happiness life. Without going through hell, happiness seems meaningless to us. because happiness and sadness are relative concepts, just like large and small.
On the other hand, sharing memories is a method to promoting relationship. While you pouring out your misery to your friends, you will be comforted and grateful. While you sharing an interesting experience to someone else, both of you will be fulfilled.
Suffering does NOT ennoble the characters. Sometimes it even makes people petty. But it tells people what does happiness mean. Experiences does NOT design the characters, either. Sometimes it have a marked impact. But it play a role of relater more often and we can choose the ways of comprehending. Based on our comprehending, we can define our feelings and design our own life.
一切以欲望为前提而存在的乌托邦都终会被毁灭。为了保障它的运行，必然会有牺牲者，必然有人来处理阴暗的一面才能来维系表面的和谐。为了构建乌托邦，制定的规则越繁琐越精确就越是无情。人类一代代传承下来的，除了规则，还应该有多彩的记忆和温暖的爱。
“没有勇气就得不到幸福，不经过斗争就不能完成德行。”——《爱弥儿》
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