p13 there is no shortage of love to go around when there are people around to love. 只要有人爱 我就能爱（真是多情 p15 and as for being immortal, a slut, or a freak, well, those are judgments, and I like to remember that old saying about glass houses. 大家都是凡人都有缺点 不该互相指责 p16 its all a spectrum--gender, sexuality, relationships, love. We all fit somewhere on it with very few of us at either end. It isn't always easy to choose that gray area in between. But for me it has always been worth it.