i know myself as an introvert and i feel okay about it.
but still there are many times, especially when it comes to socialize and talk with people, i find awkward and have no idea how to deal with.
The book gives me a chance to know the trait better, explaining how this comes from( nature or nurture?), what are the advantages of being introverted, and how to deal with different situations.
Many pieces of advices have been provided.
* how to be yourself in work place and in social circumstance
* how to make the biggest advantage of your gift
* how to communicate with extroverts especially when having conflicts
* when should introvert act more "extrovert"
A number of cases are also provided here, so that as a reader, i know how others feel about this trait, what kind of problems they embrace and how they conquer them, especially in the last several chapters. I am especially touched when the author talks about how to take care introverted children.
To be honest, it is not easy to understand a different type of personality, but there are still many we can do.
However, i still think something are not so completed here.
for one thing, the author mentions a lot about how good about the introverts in multiple circumstance, when compared to extrovert, such as they are more critical, analytical, which is really quite encouraging.
but it still seems that there are some biases here.
when too many good points mentioned here, it feels strange.
i think what readers want to see is a rather full picture of the personality analysis.
this is a book to know further about introverts, how they behave, why they behave like this,and how to do better in an all "talking" world.
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