Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children--and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Faber and Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Now, in this Twentieth Anniversary Edition, these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based upon feedback they've received over the years.
Their methods of communication-illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action-offer innovative ways to solve common problems. You'll learn how to:
1.Cope with your child's negative feelings-frustration, disappointment, anger, etc.
2.Express your anger without being hurtful
3.Engage your child's willing cooperation
4.Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill
5.Use alternatives to punishment
6.Resolve family conflicts peacefully
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How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk is an excellent communication tool kit based on a series of workshops developed by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish. Faber and Mazlish (coauthors of Siblings Without Rivalry) provide a step-by-step approach to improving relationships in your house. The "Reminder" pages, helpful cartoon illustrations, and excellent exercises will improve your ability as a parent to talk and problem-solve with your children. The book can be used alone or in parenting groups, and the solid tools provided are appropriate for kids of all ages.
About Author
Internationally acclaimed experts on communication between adults and children, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish have won the gratitude of parents and the enthusiastic endorsement of the professional community.
Their first book, Liberated Parents/Liberated Children, received the Christopher Award for "literary achievement affirming the highest values of the human spirit." Their subsequent books, How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk and the #1 New York Times bestseller Siblings Without Rivalry, have sold over 3 million copies and have been translated into more than twenty languages. Their group workshop programs and videos produced by PBS are currently used by thousands of parents' groups around the globe. Their most recent book, How to Talk So Kids Can Learn-At Home and in School, was cited by Child magazine as the "best book of the year for excellence in family issues and education."
Both authors studied with the late child psychologist, Dr. Haim Ginott, and are former members of the faculty of The New School for Social Research in New York City and The Family Life Institute of Long Island University. In addition to their frequent lectures throughout the United States and Canada, they have appeared on every major television show from "Good Morning America" to "The Oprah Winfrey Show." They currently reside in Long Island, New York, and each is the parent of three children.
From Los Angeles Times
"Designed to bring adults to the level of children, and children to the level of adults, so that this happy meeting ground can truly make for harmony in the home."
Book Dimension
Height (mm) 206 Width (mm) 138
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Full of examples, very practical. It cannot solve all your problems in parenting (which book could?) but provides techniques to communicate with your children (even your partner) without yelling. Very...Full of examples, very practical. It cannot solve all your problems in parenting (which book could?) but provides techniques to communicate with your children (even your partner) without yelling. Very useful and will be dipping in again from time to time.(展开)
一开始翻开这本书的时候，我是把它定位在如何与孩子沟通的方向上的。可是越往后看，我就越觉得很多的案例，可是用在成人的培训中，尤其是沟通技巧方面，Interpersonal Skill or Communication Skill。 为什么呢？因为这本书在最初定的基调就是，把孩子作为跟你是平等的人对待...
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0 有用 farewell 2017-04-03 02:41:37
很实用，实例很多，简单明了。
2 有用 S小姐在远方 2017-06-08 06:23:11
Full of examples, very practical. It cannot solve all your problems in parenting (which book could?) but provides techniques to communicate with your children (even your partner) without yelling. Very... Full of examples, very practical. It cannot solve all your problems in parenting (which book could?) but provides techniques to communicate with your children (even your partner) without yelling. Very useful and will be dipping in again from time to time. (展开)
0 有用 McG 2018-05-22 23:40:33
Acknowledging feelings are the foundation of any talk!
0 有用 洪小发 2019-10-30 14:09:27
在娃一岁的时候，猛发现自己的积累已经跟不上他迅猛发展的心理成长速度。直到读完这本书+《游戏力》作者在喜马拉雅的付费讲座后，又拾回了做妈妈的信心。这里面沟通理论和技巧也适用于日常和所有人的交流。记得那天晚上和爸爸发生了以前总在发生的争执，所幸冷静下来，运用书里的方法梳理了自己和爸爸的情绪，让我们双方那个都认识到彼此的爱、关怀和不当的伤害。和爸爸的关系也改善了许多。很推荐给大家
0 有用 27一。 2023-06-19 15:27:08 上海
Acknowledging kids feelings; descriptive praise; blame-free language; offering more options; showing my feelings