曾經獲頒人類性慾進階研究中心（Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality）的性學學位。同時她也是性科學研究協會（Society for the Sciengific Study of Sex）與 Xandria 顧問委員會（美國最大的性慾輔助品公司）的成員。道森博士的演說內容包羅萬象，並定期在媒體上撰文，是被人尊敬的性學專家。
The reality of traditional marriage and the romantic image of sex are a stormy combination. Couples unwittingly play power games with unstated rules and unwritten agreements.
In one game, the poor man is responsible for running the whole romantic fuck. Despite his own background of sexual repression and deprivation, he is expected to get an erection from her naked beauty, keep his erection, arouse her passions, and hold off his orgasm until she reaches hers. He’s required to do all this without any information about what really turns her on. The woman is passive, beautiful, and graceful while she waits for this incredible experience called orgasm, and when nothing happens, she concentrates on the romance.
In another game the poor woman is responsible for the man’s erection. She does oralse... (查看原文)
With the liberation of our masturbation, we no longer had to conform to each other’s sexual needs. If one of us didn’t feel like having sex, the other was free to masturbate, which often turned on the one who hadn’t been in the mood. He was able to tell me there were times when he actually preferred to masturbate rather than to have intercourse or oralsex. He began to realise how much pressure he’d been under to perform sexually. It had been nearly impossible for him to say “no, thank you” when sex was offered. The best way to avoid sex and save face was to start an argument. But now that he was more liberated, he was overcoming his socially conditioned fixation that fucking was the only “real” kind of sex. (查看原文)
9 有用 木子大叔 2005-08-07 20:38:01
毫无疑问，自慰是最好的，想象的力量。。。
2 有用 黛轩主人任博士 2009-04-13 04:40:39
@裴谕新 博士带领的@自慰研究小组 就是中国版的“贝蒂工作坊”啊
4 有用 游侠GS 2018-03-11 10:03:30
主要以女性角度直面自慰的一本书，在克制压抑的社会氛围下，读起来很有冲击感。总的说是伟大的一本书，豆瓣阅读中的译版名字叫做《一个人的性》。
3 有用 非虛構 2023-05-16 11:47:55 北京
當今年輕人的性慾和性行為的普遍現象是追求更多的幸福快樂感，較少性慾快感。這種幸福快樂感，是自我優化和自律的，鑒於它的內在有著一種較高的利己主義組成部分，也可稱為自我實現的性。這也適用於近幾十年來極大提升自慰的社會和心理意義這一事實。自慰作為唯一一種可以自我完成的性實踐，它在20 世紀的進程中，不僅從一種被諷刺和受迫害的性行為發展為一種受男人和女人稱贊的自我的性實踐，並且也因為已成為多數人的實踐而在... 當今年輕人的性慾和性行為的普遍現象是追求更多的幸福快樂感，較少性慾快感。這種幸福快樂感，是自我優化和自律的，鑒於它的內在有著一種較高的利己主義組成部分，也可稱為自我實現的性。這也適用於近幾十年來極大提升自慰的社會和心理意義這一事實。自慰作為唯一一種可以自我完成的性實踐，它在20 世紀的進程中，不僅從一種被諷刺和受迫害的性行為發展為一種受男人和女人稱贊的自我的性實踐，並且也因為已成為多數人的實踐而在數量上贏得了重要意義。但愛情仍然高於一切其他的性動機。它即使被物化了，也仍然是一種具有唯一性的珍寶，因為它既不能被複製（再生產），也不能被購買。它比一切性模式都更穩定，它在很大程度上抵制了新型性革命進程中的多樣化強制，以自身證明瞭：新型性革命不僅帶來了一種變化，而且同樣是一種具有連續性的延續或傳承。 (展开)
0 有用 青呀呀 2018-05-09 01:54:42
年代太远，很多当时避之不及的现象，现在不是禁忌了。（在保守的当时可能很“前卫”了