Worrying: A Literary and Cultural History suggests a unique approach to the inner life and its ordinary pains. Francis O'Gorman charts the emergence of our contemporary idea of worry in the Victorian era and its establishment, after the First World War, as a feature of modernity. For some writers between the Wars, worry was the "disease of the age."
Worrying: A Literary and Cultural History suggests a unique approach to the inner life and its ordinary pains. Francis O'Gorman charts the emergence of our contemporary idea of worry in the Victorian era and its establishment, after the First World War, as a feature of modernity. For some writers between the Wars, worry was the "disease of the age."
Worrying examines the everyday kind of worry-the fearful, non-pathological, and usually hidden questioning about uncertain futures. It shows worry to be a natural companion in a world where we try to live by reason and believe we have the right to choose, finding in the worrier a peculiarly contemporary sufferer whose mental life is not only exceptionally familiar, but also deeply strange.
Offering an intimately personal account of an all-too-common human experience, and of a word that slips in and out of ordinary conversation so often that it has become invisible in its familiarity, Worrying explores how the modern world has shaped our everyday anxieties.
作者简介
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Francis O'Gorman, from English, Irish, and Hungarian families, was born in 1967 and educated as C.S. Deneke Organ Scholar of Lady Margaret Hall, Oxford, where he took a double first and a doctorate in English literature. He is the author or editor of 23 books,mostly on English literature, and of essays on literature, music, and the condition of the modern English university. Hi...
Francis O'Gorman, from English, Irish, and Hungarian families, was born in 1967 and educated as C.S. Deneke Organ Scholar of Lady Margaret Hall, Oxford, where he took a double first and a doctorate in English literature. He is the author or editor of 23 books,mostly on English literature, and of essays on literature, music, and the condition of the modern English university. His Worrying: A Literary and Cultural History (Bloomsbury, 2015), described by John Carey as “subtle, exploratory, completely original,” was a Guardian “Book of the Week,” a Sunday Times “Must Read,” and one of Bookbag's “History Books of the Year, 2015.” For a decade, Francis O'Gorman held a chair in the School of English at the University of Leeds; he is now Saintsbury Professor of English Literature at the University of Edinburgh. When not working, he likes playing the organ, walking Arthur's Seat, or sitting in a bar.
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Preface to the paperback edition
Preface to the original edition
1. “But woe is me, you are sick of late:” a short history of worry
2. “O day and night, but this is wondrous strange:” managing worry
3. “The time is out of joint:” a long history of worry
4. “Accept distracted thanks:” making the best of worry
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Preface to the paperback edition
Preface to the original edition
1. “But woe is me, you are sick of late:” a short history of worry
2. “O day and night, but this is wondrous strange:” managing worry
3. “The time is out of joint:” a long history of worry
4. “Accept distracted thanks:” making the best of worry
Acknowledgments
Bibliography
Index
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健康的爱,需要在一定程度上承认双方的差异性,承认彼此都是(半)独立的个体。两个人并不会因为相爱和结婚就变成一个人,尽管《旧约·创世记》2:24曾说“人要离开父母与妻子连合,二人成为一体”。他们总须明白,对方并不等同于自己,即便十分亲密,仍然彼此不同。然而,正如我前面所思考的那样,忧虑是一种更加容易的“爱”。忧虑比爱容易。忧虑用自我的需求取代了对爱人之差异性的认识。它有时会通过可怕的外化,使爱成为自我需求的延伸。错把忧虑当成爱的忧虑者,总是过分担心爱人的安全、健康或工作的稳定,使得忧虑比什么都更引人注目。这种爱是我们非常熟悉的亲情式的爱,但又不仅仅是亲情式的。在这里,忧虑无疑源于一种尤其强烈的不安全感,表现为对放手的恐惧;源于无法认识到爱人的差异性;源于一个更宏观的人类问题,即如何对待“非我”( Not Me)的人。 (查看原文)
还没人写过短评呢