Before we commence reading How To Win Friends And Influence People, we should first realize that this book had been written to be used to as textbook for the author's course in Effective speaking and Human relationship and it still used for today. So plea...
读完了 How to Win Friends and Influence People (中文书名：《人性的弱点》），作者：Dale Carnegie(戴尔·卡耐基)。 就我个人而言，这本书真的可以列入高中生的必读书单。书中所涉及各种为人处事的道理及方法，无论读者现正处于在读学生、学校教师、职场人士、亦或者为人父母的角色，都可以从中得到某种程度上的启发。更重要的是，这本书会以各种实例告诉读者，如果这样做，会产生怎样的结果，而换成另一种方式，又会产生怎...
读完了 How to Win Friends and Influence People (中文书名：《人性的弱点》），作者：Dale Carnegie(戴尔·卡耐基)。
“ Criticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself. Criticism is dangerous, because it wounds a person’s precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment.”
“ If some people are so hungry for a feeling of importance that they actually go insane to get it, imagine what miracle you and I can achieve by giving people honest appreciation this side of insanity.”
“ If we stop thinking about ourselves for a while and begin to think of the other’s good points, we won’t have to resort to flattery so cheap and false that it can be spotted almost before it is out of the mouth.”
“ People who can put themselves in the place of other people, who can understand the working of their minds, need never worry about what the future has in store for them.”
“ I have no right to say or do anything that diminishes a man in his own eyes. What matters is not what I think of him, but what he thinks of himself. Hurting a man in his dignity is a crime.”