自我关怀的力量

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• Self-appreciation and self-compassion are really two sides of the same coin. One is focused on what brings us pleasure, the other on what brings us suffering. One celebrates us our strengths as humans, the other accepts our weaknesses. What really matters is that our hearts and minds are open. Rather than continually evaluating, comparing, resisting, obsessing, and distorting-- we simply open. Open to seeing ourselves and our lives exactly as they are, in all their glory and ignominy. Open to the love of all creation, ourselves included, without exception. As we walk through the triumphs and tragedies of lives, we relate to everything with kindness. We feel our interconnectedness with everyone and everything. We become aware of the present moment without judgement. We experience the full s... (查看原文)

  Maverick@Walden 2赞 2013-07-30 10:59:23

• 当我们跌倒的时候，不要无情地摧残自己。即使我们摔了一个大跟头，我们也仍有其他的选项。每个人都有搞砸的时候，我们需要的是善待自己。或许我们无法展现自己最好的一面，但是我们奴列，而丢脸受挫则是生命中不可避免地一部分，事实上，还是值得尊敬地一部分。 感受亲情和牵挂地能力是我们生物学性质上地一部分。我们地大脑事实上因关爱而存在。 (查看原文)

  土土胖胖小可爱 1赞 2019-11-20 13:58:47

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