So we come to one person, and we basically are asking them to give us what once an entire village used to provide: Give me belonging, give me identity, give me continuity, but give me transcendence and mystery and awe all in one. (查看原文)
When I’ve really been in love with someone, it’s not because they looked a certain way or liked a certain TV show or a certain cuisine. It’s more because when I watched a certain TV show or ate a certain cuisine with them, it was the most fun thing ever. (查看原文)
I was in eager anticipation of relishing this book filled with fun facts about and sociological explanations of digitalised romance, yet, in my opinion, Ansari's writing style has been a massive disappointment. In this book, he frequently decides to deliber...
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Treat potential partners like actual people, not bubbles on a screen Treat those interactions with respect and be honest. Don't think of online dating as dating--think of it as an online introduction service. Make sure you properly inveset in people and giv...
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没记错的话，Ch7之前更多的是描述性的内容。而Ch7中的内容其实值得再读一遍，有几个点是引起了我的思考的。比如:1.passionate/companionate love 的定义。 2.monogamish, open relationship with partner 3.人性中天然有一部分人有婚外sex的需求, 法国人对于cheating的看法。 4...
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Initially, I thought this book was only meant for online daters. However, it can also be interesting to anyone who looks for love and even social academics. This is probably one of the most interesting social researches I have ever read. It adopts varied me...
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INTRODUCTION CHAPTER 1 SEARCHING FOR YOUR SOUL MATE CHAPTER 2 THE INITIAL ASK CHAPTER 3 ONLINE DATING CHAPTER 4 CHOICE AND OPTIONS CHAPTER 5 INTERNATIONAL INVESTIGATIONS OF LOVE CHAPTER 6 OLD ISSUES, NEW FORMS: SEXTING, CHEATING, SNOOPING, AND BREAKING UP C...
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