'I'm going to make the obvious point that perhaps the word neurotic means the condition of being highly conscious and developed. The essence of neurosis is conflict. But the essence of living now, fully, not blocking off to what goes on, is conflict. In fact I've reached the stage where I look at people and say - he or she, they are whole at all because they’ve chosen to block off at this stage or that. People stay sane by blocking off, by limiting themselves.’
‘Would you say you were better or worse for your experience with me?’
‘But now you are back in the consulting room. Of course I’m better. But that’s a clinical term. I’m afraid of being better at the cost of living inside myth and dreams. Psychoanalysis stands or falls on whether it makes better human beings, morally better,... (查看原文)
2 有用 妙吉祥虚空藏 2018-07-24 21:42:12
索尔在金色笔记扉页上写上谁打开这本笔记就会受诅咒这样的戏谑语,那么阅读《金色笔记》的读者岂不是都被诅咒了……看完对婚姻和两性关系充满了厌恶感,作者你赢了……= =
2 有用 格如拉提氏 2017-04-13 12:06:10
世界本就是混沌,做好自己已是不易
1 有用 KA 2023-09-21 16:55:37 上海
好看,好读。但不认同书中对左派和女性的书写,从未见过这样离不开男人的女人,感觉作者以己度人,资本主义和男权要窃笑了
0 有用 无彩潜水艇 2013-12-06 00:54:30
形式的创新,之后很多电影的拍摄手法都从这里学到真知。唉,男女关系像男女性别一样永恒般存在。看完之后又一次验证认识的形形色色的人,男人生来爱吹牛,女人天生要嫉妒。渺小的人类哇,这是顽疾,别指望清除它们。
0 有用 长安 2013-06-18 23:41:38
我竟然看完了