達摩兒博士是《紐約時報》暢銷榜作家，她以優異的成績畢業於耶魯大學，隨後在耶魯兒童研究中心（Yale Child Study Center）任職，取得密西根大學的臨床心理學博士學位。她發表過無數與教育和兒童發展相關的學術論文。她除了是勞雷爾學校（Laurel School）女孩研究中心（Center for Research on Girls）的負責人之外，還開設心理諮商診所，專長為青少女諮商，更受邀各國發表演說與提供諮詢。她是凱斯西儲大學（Case Western Reserve University）心理系的舒伯特兒童研究中心（Schubert Center for Child Studies）資深研究員，並受聘為該系臨床指導教授。目前與先生和兩位女兒住在俄亥俄州的謝柯高地（Shaker He...
達摩兒博士是《紐約時報》暢銷榜作家，她以優異的成績畢業於耶魯大學，隨後在耶魯兒童研究中心（Yale Child Study Center）任職，取得密西根大學的臨床心理學博士學位。她發表過無數與教育和兒童發展相關的學術論文。她除了是勞雷爾學校（Laurel School）女孩研究中心（Center for Research on Girls）的負責人之外，還開設心理諮商診所，專長為青少女諮商，更受邀各國發表演說與提供諮詢。她是凱斯西儲大學（Case Western Reserve University）心理系的舒伯特兒童研究中心（Schubert Center for Child Studies）資深研究員，並受聘為該系臨床指導教授。目前與先生和兩位女兒住在俄亥俄州的謝柯高地（Shaker Heights）。
While an adolescent remains inconsistent and unpredictable in her behavior, she may suffer, but she does not seem to me to be in need of treatment. I think that she should be given time and scope to work out her own solution. Rather, it may be her parents who need help and guidance so as to be able to bear with her. There are few situations in life which are more difficult to cope with than an adolescent son or daughter during the attempt to liberate themselves.
----- Anna Freud (1958), “Adolescence” (查看原文)
by Anna Freud:
I take it that it is normal for an adolescent to behave for a considerable length of time in an inconsistent and unpredictable manner; to fight her impulses and accept them; to love her parents and to hate them; to revolt against them and be dependent on them; to be deeply ashamed to acknowledge here mother before other and, unexpectedly, to desire heart-to-heart talks with her; to thrive on imitation of others while searching unceasingly for her own idenity; to be more idealistic, artistic, generous, and unselfish than she will ever be again, but also the opposite: self-centered, egoistic, calculating. Such fluctuations and extreme opposites would be deemed highly abnormal at any other time of life. At the time they may signify no more than that an adult structure of person... (查看原文)
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我有时候觉得孩子的课程逃掉了，这块学习阶段就不补上了，人生的选择就是这三年给了这个人而不是另一个人，让孩子一直读书缺乏玩乐简直是错误的决定…