Men in general don’t know how to live: they have no true familiarity with life, and never feel entirely at ease in it, so they pursue different projects, more or less ambitious and more or less grandiose--- generally speaking, of course, they fail and reach the conclusion that they would have been better off just living, but as a rule by that point it’s too late. (查看原文)
At this stage it might be necessary to provide some clarification about love, intended more for women as women have difficulty understanding what love is for men, and they constantly disconcerted by their attitudes and behavior, and sometimes reach the erroneous conclusion that men are incapable of love; they rarely perceive that the very word 'love' signifies two radically different realities for men and for women. (查看原文)
Sometimes, however rarely, among the most sensitive and imaginative men, love arrives in the first moment, therefore love at first sight is absolutely not a myth; but rather when a man, by a prodigious psychological movement of anticipation, has already imagined all the pleasures which this woman could provide over the years( and, as they say, until death does them apart), so the man has already( always already, as Heidegger would have said on one of his good days) anticipated the glorious ending; and it was that infinity, that glorious infinity of shares pleasures, that I had glimpsed in... (查看原文)
For women, love is power: a generative, tectonic power; love when it manifests itself in women is one the most imposing nature phenomena and it should be treated with awe; it is a creative power of the same order as an earthquake or a climatic disturbance, its origin lies in a different ecosystem, women create a new world; small isolated creatures were bobbing about in an uncertain existence and here comes a women to create a conditions for life as a couple, a new social, sentimental and genetic entity whose vocation is quite simply to eliminate all traces of the pre-existing individuals of which it is formed; this new entity is already essentially perfect, as Plato had perceived. It may sometimes becomes more complex with a family but that is almost a detail, contrary to what Schopenhaue... (查看原文)
Men are initially reserved, they admire and respect this emotional release without fully understanding it; it seems quite strange to them to make a fuss about it. But gradually they are transformed, they are slowly sucked into the vortex of passion and pleasure that a women creates: more precisely, they recognize her will, her pure and unconditional will, and they understand that that will is in essence absolutely good, even though she requires frequent and preferably daily vaginal penetration as the normal condition of its manifestation, in which the phallus, the core of the men's being, alters it status by becoming the condition under which the manifestation of love is made possible ---men having hardly any other means of showing it ---and by this strange detour the happiness of the phal... (查看原文)
Our student years are the only happy ones, when the future seems open, when everything seems possible, and after that adulthood and a career are only a slow and progressive process of ending up in a nut. That’s probably also why the friendships of our youth, the ones we make during our time as students and which are our only true friendships, never survive into adulthood: we avoid seeing them so as not to be confronted by witness to our crushed hopes, the evidence of our defeat. (查看原文)
The outside world was harsh, merciless towards the weak, and hardly ever kept its promises, and love remained the only thing in which one could still, perhaps, have faith. (查看原文)
You really can’t do anything about people’s lives, I said to myself, neither friendship nor compassion nor the intelligence of situations is of any use: people manufacture the mechanism of their own misfortune, they wind it right up and the mechanism goes on turning, ineluctably, with the odd mistake, a few errors when there’s sickness in the mix but it goes on turning to the end, to the final second. (查看原文)
I will be wrongly reproached perhaps for granting too much importance to sex. Sex remains the only moment of one’s life where one personally and directly engages his organs, so the passage through sex and intense sex, remains a necessary passage in order for the love affair to happen, nothing can take place without it. (查看原文)
You can live and be despairing—most people live like that in fact, although sometimes they wonder whether they can allow themselves a whiff of hope; well at least they ask themselves the question before answering in the negative. And yet they persist, and it’s a touching sight. (查看原文)
People never listen to the advice you give them, and when they ask for advice it’s specifically with a view to not following it, and have it confirmed by an external voice that they are stuck in a spiral of annihilation and death; the advice one gives them plays exactly the same role for them as that of the tragic choir, confirming to the hero that he has taken the path of destruction and chaos. (查看原文)
Chez la femme l'amour est une puissance, une puissance génératrice, tectonique, l'amour quand il se manifeste chez la femme est un des phénomènes naturels les plus imposants dont la nature puisse nous offrir le spectacle, il est à considérer avec crainte, c'est une puissance créatrice du même ordre qu'un tremblement de terre ou un bouleversement climatique, il est à l'organe d'un autre écosystème, d'un autre environnement, d'un autre univers, par son amour la femme crée un monde nouveau, de petites êtres isolés barbotaient dans une existence incertain et voici que la femme crée les conditions d'existence d'un couple, d'une entité sociale, sentimentale et génétique nouvelle, dont la vocation est bel et bien d'éliminer toute trace des individus préexistants, cette nouvelle entité est déjà pa... (查看原文)
Après ce mini gang-bang canin, j'interrompis mon visionnage, j'étais écœuré mais surtout pour les chiens, en même temps je ne pouvais pas me dissimuler que pour une Japonaise (d'après tout ce que j'avais pu observer de la mentalité de ce peuple), coucher avec un Occidental, c'est déjà presque copuler avec un chien. (查看原文)
...j'entamai la visite des tours qui s'étendent entre la Porte Choisy et la Porte d'Ivry. Je devais rechercher la vide, le blanc et le nu ; l'environnement correspondait presque idéalement à cette quête, habiter dans une de ces tours c'était habiter nulle part, disons dans le voisinage immédiat de nulle part.
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