Imagine, more precisely, that you are so afraid that you will not allow yourself even to know what you want. Knowing would simultaneously mean hoping, and your hopes have been dashed. You have your reasons for maintaining your ignorance. You are afraid, perhaps, that there is nothing worth wanting; you are afraid that if you specify what you want precisely you will simultaneously discover (and all too clearly) what constitutes failure; you are afraid that if you define failure and then fail, you will know beyond a shadow of a doubt that it was you that failed, and that it was your fault.
So, you do not allow yourself to know what you want. You manage this by refusing to think it through. You are happy, satisfied, and engages sometimes and unhappy, frustrated, and nihilistic other times, b... (查看原文)
Luke chapter 6 describes Him healing a man with a withered hand on another Sabbath, stating “It is lawful on the Sabbath days to do good, or to do evil? to save life, or destroy it?” (Luke 6:9). This psychologically and conceptually painful juxtaposition of two moral stances (the keeping of the Sabbath versus the injunction to do good) is something else that constantly enrages the Pharisees, and is part of the series of events that eventually leads to Christ’s arrest and Crucifixion. These stories portray the existential dilemma that eternally characterizes human life: it is necessary to conform, to be disciplined, and to follow the rules—to do humbly what others do; but it is also necessary to use judgment, vision, and the truth that guides conscience to tell what is right, when the rules... (查看原文)
JBP是一个对我影响很大的老男人 [视频] 我从Jordan B. Peterson的书、演讲和视频里受益匪浅，得到了很多帮助。光从他畅销书”12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos"和新书"Beyond Order: 12 More Rules for Life"书名上看，很多人可能觉得他是个成功学丛书作者，或者所谓“...
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2 有用 罗成 2022-04-06 15:02:30
“龙虾教授”的新书来了！新十二法则直面当下我们生活所面临的种种困境，非常具有指导意义。
4 有用 danyboy 2022-07-05 15:51:48
感觉不要刻意去理解、研究、遵循作者提出的这些“法则”，当成他的自传，可能更容易、平等、辩论的进入。有时候，所谓“鸡汤”不是指摆在你面前的某个文本、样板，而是你对待这个文本的方式
1 有用 拾芳 2022-06-10 17:44:21
恪守与超越。本书六星。困境是课题，也是机遇。
0 有用 深夏晚晴天ZMH 2022-07-05 21:44:47
都说大道至简，这本书里的12条人生法则看似简单，却蕴含着帮助我们找到破解人生困局的关键。 彼得森丰富的人生阅历，使他的文字有一种能带人超越悲痛、焦虑、悲伤的深厚力量。字字珠玑，每一条法则都是一个阅尽千帆之后归来的长辈的肺腑之言。 我们每个人，都值得拥有一个自由且丰盛的人生。
1 有用 小冒力 2022-03-23 16:53:40
简简单单的十二个法则，但这都是教授经历过的痛苦、磨难得出的至臻道理，简单又并不简单。
1 有用 芭尼 2022-08-09 18:17:33
有两个章节还可以，引用进播客
1 有用 ♾️ 2022-08-08 15:25:37
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1 有用 啊白白 2022-08-07 21:50:10
看了30%看不下去，翻译的啥
1 有用 不器 2022-08-07 16:34:40
相比第一本，收获稍有不足。结构也不如第一本清晰明了。但还是有点内容的。比如认知分辨率低带来的拜概念教，一堆人复读机式的重复女权，厌女，环保主义。
0 有用 roaming_sheep 2022-08-02 18:28:49
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