White men , capitalism and patriarchy all benefit from emotional labor that mostly undertaken by women and marginalized groups, but they devalue it and refuse to pay for it.
Traditionally, men provide women with financial support, and women provide men with emotional support. That explains why when the wife dies, the husband usually dies soon after, while the reverse isn't true. April 2025, Abu Dhabi
Emotional labor is always performed by marginalized people to cater the feelings and benefits of the patriarchy, but emotional labor shouldn’t be something we avoid doing. We should all be proud of being emphatic, emotional, and caring. By acknowledging this type of work, we can strive for our power in a more systematic way.
作者: Rose Hackman 副标题: The Invisible Work Shaping Our Lives and How to Claim Our Power isbn: 1250777356 书名: Emotional Labor 页数: 272 出版社: Flatiron Books 出版年: 2023-3-28 装帧: 平装
6 有用 OPPY 2024-03-08 12:42:23 加拿大
不同意中文译名为“情绪价值”，不如直译“情绪劳动”，准确点该是“女性情绪劳动的价值”。 全书的讨论和思考比较散、杂、浅，但胜在很全面。仍然很有意义，最大意义在于Awareness raising，提高“情绪劳动”这个概念的大众意识，并深化认识和理解，增强人们对“情绪劳动者”的感激与敬意。 个人读感最不适处：作者把“情绪劳动”议题与女性议题混杂乱炖，而事实上她的主题是这两项议题的交集。这一方面最好厘清。 讨论情绪劳动，重点在于揭示和辨析其中的injustice和inequality，因为如果是双向互助或社群互助，便不必定是剥削、是负面的。 个人印象最深的是第三章里讲到保姆的部分，让我忍不住再次呼吁：女性主义不是贵妇主义。 冷知识：女性在性爱中假装高潮也是向男性伴侣付出情绪劳动哦。
1 有用 Verotchka🥬🍅 2024-02-26 21:15:50 重庆
White men , capitalism and patriarchy all benefit from emotional labor that mostly undertaken by women and marginalized groups, but they devalue it and refuse to pay for it.
0 有用 叮当想旅行 2024-02-27 22:09:04 广东
3.5 比较系统地归纳总结出什么是情绪劳动，以及不平等的关系细节。就是后面有点拉拉杂杂，不够精练。父权制的物质基础是男人对女人劳动力的控制。
0 有用 Dhamma Geek 2024-07-27 04:19:50 北京
一边打游戏一边把audiobook草草过了一遍…..号召收费可还行，友情也打上了价格标签
0 有用 hurlyburly 2024-05-21 14:47:17 江苏
充满反反复复的战斗口号，连珠炮一样的情绪输出，稀薄的掺杂一些学术探讨。B站有英语学习up导读这本书，实在是大可不必。
0 有用 禅茶一味 2025-04-14 02:55:12 阿联酋
Traditionally, men provide women with financial support, and women provide men with emotional support. That explains why when the wife dies, the husband usually dies soon after, while the reverse isn't true. April 2025, Abu Dhabi
0 有用 发呆时在想什么 2023-11-23 07:29:38 美国
Emotional labor is always performed by marginalized people to cater the feelings and benefits of the patriarchy, but emotional labor shouldn’t be something we avoid doing. We should all be proud of being emphatic, emotional, and caring. By acknowledging this type of work, we can strive for our power in a more systematic way.