“A startling, confronting, and liberating treatise.”
―Holly Whitaker, New York Times bestselling author of Quit Like a Woman
What is “woman” if not “mother”?
Anything she wants to be.
Foregoing motherhood has traditionally marked a woman as “other.” With no official place setting for her in our society, she has hovered on the sidelines: the quirky girl, the neurotic career obsessive, the “eccentric” aunt. Instead of continuing to paint women without kids as sad, self-obsessed, or somehow dysfunctional, what if we saw them as boldly forging a first-in-a-civilization vision for a fully autonomous womankind? Or as journalist and thought leader Ruby Warrington asks, What if being a woman without kids were in fact its own kind of legacy?
Taking in themes from intergenerational healing to feminism to environmentalism, this personal look and anthropological dig into a stubbornly taboo topic is a timely and brave reframing of what it means not to be a mom. Our experiences and discourse around non-motherhood are central to women’s ongoing fight for gender equality. And whether we are childless by design or circumstance, we can live without regret, shame, or compromise.
Bold and tenderhearted, Women Without Kids seeks first and foremost to help valorize a path that is the natural consequence of women having more say about the choices we make and how our lives play out. Within this, it unites the unsung sisterhood of non-mothers―no longer pariahs or misfits, but as a vital part of our evolution and collective healing as women, as humans, and as a global family.
1 有用 索大菲 2023-12-21 07:04:15 英国
Very liberating…竟然是今年才出版的书。印象最深的是作者原来想把这本书命名为selfish cunt,因为feminism is partially about being more selfish about our cunt 😂但最后竟然不是因为c-word而是因为”selfish”这个词改名儿了
0 有用 Luigi 2025-08-05 00:30:34 爱尔兰
说起来也惭愧,其实作者讲述自己经历的比较偏“故事性”的部分写的还挺不错,但是议论部分我读的就很容易走神(我的问题);但总的来说从社会期待(父权制为主的社会下对母职的自然要求),到社会变迁(女权主义和性解放运动里女性对身体主权的进一步掌控和“后天”家庭/姐妹社群的兴起),在回归到个人经历(原生家庭的影响),从不同角度讲解了women without kids的正常与可行性,并消解掉女性可能会产生的内... 说起来也惭愧,其实作者讲述自己经历的比较偏“故事性”的部分写的还挺不错,但是议论部分我读的就很容易走神(我的问题);但总的来说从社会期待(父权制为主的社会下对母职的自然要求),到社会变迁(女权主义和性解放运动里女性对身体主权的进一步掌控和“后天”家庭/姐妹社群的兴起),在回归到个人经历(原生家庭的影响),从不同角度讲解了women without kids的正常与可行性,并消解掉女性可能会产生的内疚感,框架上是很不错的。 (展开)
0 有用 艾琳是一只包呀 2024-01-21 08:58:32 美国
作为一个已婚不打算生育的青年女性,知道自己不是怪女人真的太好了