Part One Fundamental Techniques in Handling People 待人的基本技巧“If You Want to Gather Honey,Don’t Kick over the Beehive”/2“你要想采蜜,就不要踢倒蜂箱”/3The Big Secret of Dealing with People/24和人交往的一大秘诀/25“He Who Can Do This Has the Whole World with Him.He Who Cannot,Walks a Lonely Way”/44“能这样做的人全世界会和他同行,不能这样做的人会孤独而行”/45Part Two Six Ways to Make People Like You 让人喜欢你的六种方法Do This and You’11 Be Welcome Anywhere/74如果这样做,你会到处受欢迎/75A Simple Way to Make a Good First Impression/94留下第一良好印象的简单方法/95If You Don’t Do This,You Are Headed for Trouble/106如果不这样做,你就会发生麻烦/107An Easy Way to Become a Good Conversationalist/120成为出色健谈者的捷径/121How to Interest People/134如何让人感兴趣/135How to Make People Like You Instantly/140如何让人马上喜欢你/141Part Three Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking 如何赢得人们对你的思维方式的认同You Can’t Win an Argument/160你不可能赢得争论/161A Sure Way of Making Enemies--and How to Avoid It/170树敌避敌的可靠方法/171If You’re Wrong。Admit It/188错了就要承认/189A Drop of Honey/200一滴蜂蜜/201The Secret of Socrates/214苏格拉底的秘诀/215The Safety Valve in Handling Complaints/224处理投诉的安全阀/225How to Get Cooperation/232如何赢得合作/233A Formula That WiU Work Wonders for You/240一个为你创造奇迹的方案/241What Everybody Wants/248每个人都想要的/249An Appeal That Everybody Likes/260人人都喜欢的吸引力/261The Movies Do It.TV Does It.Why Don’t You Do It?/268电影这样做。电视这样做。你为什么不这样做呢?/269When Nothing Else Works,Try This/276当别的都不管用时,试试这个/277Part Four Be a Leader:How to Change People Without Giving Offence or Arousing Resentment 作为领导:如何改变他人而又不得罪对方或引起怨恨If You Must Find Fault,This Is the Way to Begin/284如果你必须挑毛病,这就是开始的方法/285How to Criticize--and Not Be Hated for It/294如何批评才能不让人讨厌/295Talk about Your Own Mistakes First/300先谈你自己的错误/301No One Likes to Take Orders/308没有人喜欢接受命令/309Let the Other Person Save Face/312让对方保全面子/313How to Spur People on to Success/318如何激励人们走向成功/319Give a Dog a Good Name/326给人一个好名声/327Make the Fault Seem Easy to Correct/334让错误看起来容易纠正/335Making People Glad to Do What You Want/340使人们乐意做你想要做的事情/341Part Five Seven Rules for Making Your Home Life Happier 让你的家庭生活更加幸福的七个原则HoW to Dig Your Marital Grave in the Quickest Possible Way/348如何以可能最快的方式挖掘婚姻的坟墓/349Love and Let Live/358爱,就要让享受人生/359Do This and You’11 Be Looking up the Time-Tables to Reno/362如果这样做,你就快要离婚了/363A Quick Way to Make Everybody Happy/364让人人快乐的一条捷径/365They Mean So Much to a Woman/368鲜花对女人意义重大/369If you Want to be Happy,Don’t Neglect This One/372如果你想快乐,就不要忽略这一点/373Don’t Be a“Marriage Illiterate”/378不要做“婚姻的文盲”/379
Part One Fundamental Techniques in Handling People 待人的基本技巧“If You Want to Gather Honey,Don’t Kick over the Beehive”/2“你要想采蜜,就不要踢倒蜂箱”/3The Big Secret of Dealing with People/24和人交往的一大秘诀/25“He Who Can Do This Has the Whole World with Him.He Who Cannot,Walks a Lonely Way”/44“能这样做的人全世界会和他同行,不能这样做的人会孤独而行”/45Part Two Six Ways to Make People Like You 让人喜欢你的六种方法Do This and You’11 Be Welcome Anywhere/74如果这样做,你会到处受欢迎/75A Simple Way to Make a Good First Impression/94留下第一良好印象的简单方法/95If You Don’t Do This,You Are Headed for Trouble/106如果不这样做,你就会发生麻烦/107An Easy Way to Become a Good Conversationalist/120成为出色健谈者的捷径/121How to Interest People/134如何让人感兴趣/135How to Make People Like You Instantly/140如何让人马上喜欢你/141Part Three Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking 如何赢得人们对你的思维方式的认同You Can’t Win an Argument/160你不可能赢得争论/161A Sure Way of Making Enemies--and How to Avoid It/170树敌避敌的可靠方法/171If You’re Wrong。Admit It/188错了就要承认/189A Drop of Honey/200一滴蜂蜜/201The Secret of Socrates/214苏格拉底的秘诀/215The Safety Valve in Handling Complaints/224处理投诉的安全阀/225How to Get Cooperation/232如何赢得合作/233A Formula That WiU Work Wonders for You/240一个为你创造奇迹的方案/241What Everybody Wants/248每个人都想要的/249An Appeal That Everybody Likes/260人人都喜欢的吸引力/261The Movies Do It.TV Does It.Why Don’t You Do It?/268电影这样做。电视这样做。你为什么不这样做呢?/269When Nothing Else Works,Try This/276当别的都不管用时,试试这个/277Part Four Be a Leader:How to Change People Without Giving Offence or Arousing Resentment 作为领导:如何改变他人而又不得罪对方或引起怨恨If You Must Find Fault,This Is the Way to Begin/284如果你必须挑毛病,这就是开始的方法/285How to Criticize--and Not Be Hated for It/294如何批评才能不让人讨厌/295Talk about Your Own Mistakes First/300先谈你自己的错误/301No One Likes to Take Orders/308没有人喜欢接受命令/309Let the Other Person Save Face/312让对方保全面子/313How to Spur People on to Success/318如何激励人们走向成功/319Give a Dog a Good Name/326给人一个好名声/327Make the Fault Seem Easy to Correct/334让错误看起来容易纠正/335Making People Glad to Do What You Want/340使人们乐意做你想要做的事情/341Part Five Seven Rules for Making Your Home Life Happier 让你的家庭生活更加幸福的七个原则HoW to Dig Your Marital Grave in the Quickest Possible Way/348如何以可能最快的方式挖掘婚姻的坟墓/349Love and Let Live/358爱,就要让享受人生/359Do This and You’11 Be Looking up the Time-Tables to Reno/362如果这样做,你就快要离婚了/363A Quick Way to Make Everybody Happy/364让人人快乐的一条捷径/365They Mean So Much to a Woman/368鲜花对女人意义重大/369If you Want to be Happy,Don’t Neglect This One/372如果你想快乐,就不要忽略这一点/373Don’t Be a“Marriage Illiterate”/378不要做“婚姻的文盲”/379
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1. 英语翻译问题。我觉得开始翻译还是不错的,但后面就有点马虎了。比如40页第四段,if all we had to do was flatty, everybody would catch on and we should all be experts in human relations.书中翻译为,如果我们都必须去恭维,那每个人都会受人欢迎,我们都应该成为人...
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0 有用 Weirdo啊啊瑞。 2013-09-03 10:04:05
值得读多遍。
0 有用 小魔菇凉 2012-02-04 20:29:09
这本书是中英双语的。
2 有用 lo wayne 2013-08-23 01:00:31
我更喜欢人家的本名 how to win friends and influence people
0 有用 王奋斗 2017-09-14 17:09:18
从高中时就开始读这本书,非常认真的学习,希望获得社会能力的提升。读了几十年才发现,这本书根本不符合中国国情,相信这本书中的道理与逻辑注定是死路一条。
0 有用 Y 2010-12-19 19:01:15
呢个英汉对照版唔错,可以练阅读