This book aroses a lot of my different kinds of feelings. My teers are falling, cause it's reminds the hurts from my parents, and the pain in my growing experiences. However, at the same time, at this age, I definitely appreciate my parents, their sacrifice, their love, their expectation.And I am so glad that I can be their child.
Some may say Amy's suggestions seem a little bit extreme, whereas they were highly effective and useable, so before criticizing her coaching method, retrospect what your parents have done to make what you are today(likewise you and your own kids). Maybe prosperity can never last for generations, but philosophy can--to be exceptional
10 有用 六月·MythJune 2011-07-14 00:24:03
This book aroses a lot of my different kinds of feelings. My teers are falling, cause it's reminds the hurts from my parents, and the pain in my growing experiences. However, at the same time, at this age, I definitely appreciate my parents, their sacrifice, their love, their expectation.And I am so glad that I can be their child.
5 有用 Kreuzberg 2017-10-01 21:19:37
觉得书本前半部分有关教育方式教育理念已经被各媒体夸大了，其实后半部分LuLu开始反叛最后崩溃才稍微能触动人心一点
2 有用 方姝葭。 2011-04-12 17:22:14
Some may say Amy's suggestions seem a little bit extreme, whereas they were highly effective and useable, so before criticizing her coaching method, retrospect what your parents have done to make what you are today(likewise you and your own kids). Maybe prosperity can never last for generations, but philosophy can--to be exceptional
6 有用 amiko 2011-03-13 14:06:26
Amy Chua You're Not a Tiger Mother, Just a Psycho-Bitch
1 有用 胡天翼 2011-02-06 19:16:02
抛开之前读的评论，节选，完整读一遍肯定会对她多一些理解。
2 有用 #阿芙佳朵凊# 2012-02-25 17:25:29
真心反感這樣的parenting style，真心反感書裡多次出現的一杆子打死
1 有用 酸奶 2018-11-13 20:09:31
一口气读完，她的确是比一般中国父母还严格的虎妈，如一切真如文中所描述，就不难理解前一阵她在川普大法官风波里的小插曲（让女学生穿得更漂亮等）。不管怎么说，她的行动语言或许让旁人反感，但我却很理解也在方法论上赞同（勤能补拙等），如果不对孩子做要求只是傻玩，那孩子也大概率没有成就，可事实上是谁又忍心（或有能力执行）对孩子如虎妈般那么狠呢？
1 有用 maggie 2012-11-17 13:47:38
读过才有发言权。书的可读性高。虎妈的矛盾、纠结跃然纸上。这不是一个能用“好”坏“”对“”错“来评判的角色，至少她曾经全力以赴。
0 有用 三个背影 2012-07-04 15:32:22
很认同虎妈的教育理念，但并不觉得这是本好书。
0 有用 Rocinante 2011-07-09 11:20:51
实在不知道，应该怎样评价。只能说是一种观点，一种模式，是对是错结果如何有太多因素决定，不是家长一己之力就能导向的，比方说LULU最后的改变。
0 有用 Marni 2015-04-02 17:59:22
观念真好，赞
0 有用 sLhaha 2011-10-27 10:28:11
不敢认同虎妈的教育方式，但这本书写得挺精彩的。
0 有用 劉美兒 2011-05-01 21:03:06
剛好手邊有本，很快就讀完。不是我杯茶。
0 有用 AJ 2015-12-11 12:34:54
美国图书馆里借的kindle版，比较认同里面的教育理念，管比不管付出的要多，小孩子没有太大自制力，大人的监督是让孩子更好地在一个方面付出努力，并在获得成果后以内在的动力坚持下去，并获得自信。以后也会在其他领域自律和努力。回顾我的成长过程，母亲耐心的陪伴和监督让我在一些事情上坚持了下去，让我之后做事都有了自信和动力。我很感激她。
0 有用 Samuel 2012-04-02 11:42:02
虎妈其实未成功，这本书还需出续集。Anyway我很欣赏她
0 有用 波士顿的秋天 2011-03-14 15:12:56
有得必有失，关键不是看你如何选择而是你是否有选择的权利。
0 有用 Miya飞出潜水钟 2015-04-28 09:53:43
简单粗暴又很奉献的麻麻 有结果是最好的激励
0 有用 木木潇洒🌱 2011-05-17 15:28:34
我讨厌这样的教育方式。。。。。。。简直就是谋杀
0 有用 大椿树下的小象 2012-05-17 16:02:57
一个妈妈和她的两个女儿之间的故事。
0 有用 t 2014-07-28 13:11:07
Despite its intention to be a funny self-parody, the book touched a soft spot of mine in a peculiar way. In a nutshell, hilarious & heartwarming :')