Drawing comparisons to the most eloquent science writing of our day, three eminent psychiatrists tackle the difficult task of reconciling what artists and thinkers have known for thousands of years about the human heart with what has only recently been learned about the primitive functions of the human brain. The result is an original, lucid, at times moving account of the comp...
Drawing comparisons to the most eloquent science writing of our day, three eminent psychiatrists tackle the difficult task of reconciling what artists and thinkers have known for thousands of years about the human heart with what has only recently been learned about the primitive functions of the human brain. The result is an original, lucid, at times moving account of the complexities of love and its essential role in human well-being.
A General Theory of Love draws on the latest scientific research to demonstrate that our nervous systems are not self-contained: from earliest childhood, our brains actually link with those of the people close to us, in a silent rhythm that alters the very structure of our brains, establishes life-long emotional patterns, and makes us, in large part, who we are. Explaining how relationships function, how parents shape their child’s developing self, how psychotherapy really works, and how our society dangerously flouts essential emotional laws, this is a work of rare passion and eloquence that will forever change the way you think about human intimacy.
Traditional versions of the mind hold that Passion is a troublesome remnant from humanity's savage past, and the intellectual subjugation of emotion is civilization's triumph. Logical but dubious derivations follow: emotioanl maturity is synonysmous with emotional restraint. (查看原文)
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2 有用 Alice** 2017-03-26 06:55:03
Once you have flown, you will walk the Earth, with your eyes turned skyward; for there you have been, there you long to return.
0 有用 untamedheart 2020-08-31 13:50:28
20年前的三位UCSF的psychiatrists的合著，完美的连接起了科学和文学/艺术”两种文化” ，很牛。内容也极好，尤其最后一章当把他们的观点应用到当今美国的种种社会问题中去分析的时候，会有种前人智慧的enlightening 感。可惜，他们所大声疾呼，依然是今天大部分人，尤其是家长，所不知甚至反向行之的。
0 有用 莎翁 2022-03-22 22:49:43
一本科普书读罢竟让人唇齿留香，replete with insights and word play, so informative and engaging
0 有用 豆豆小丸纸 2020-04-04 22:14:08
Enlightening
0 有用 saya洗洗睡吧 2015-10-26 00:57:12
wow this book is such an eye-opener. would recommend to anyone:)
0 有用 莎翁 2022-03-22 22:49:43
一本科普书读罢竟让人唇齿留香，replete with insights and word play, so informative and engaging
0 有用 mehwhatever 2020-11-15 00:59:06
用词怎么生癖怎么来 读的抓耳挠腮 基本上就是心理学生理学脑神经学的基础理论 一本叫爱的理论的书从头到尾的结论是我们也许永远无法了解爱的机制。。读了个寂寞 不过也算是增加了一些原来没有的知识 三脑理论 孩子对母亲的表情识别来确定危险和靠着对母亲情感依赖而存活 therapist是通过建立长期的连结来改变病人的神经连接 爱情是长期的relatedness而不是翻云覆雨的激情 病人对医生的情感依赖 现代... 用词怎么生癖怎么来 读的抓耳挠腮 基本上就是心理学生理学脑神经学的基础理论 一本叫爱的理论的书从头到尾的结论是我们也许永远无法了解爱的机制。。读了个寂寞 不过也算是增加了一些原来没有的知识 三脑理论 孩子对母亲的表情识别来确定危险和靠着对母亲情感依赖而存活 therapist是通过建立长期的连结来改变病人的神经连接 爱情是长期的relatedness而不是翻云覆雨的激情 病人对医生的情感依赖 现代社会对情感联结的逐渐忽视带来的潜在风险 (展开)
0 有用 untamedheart 2020-08-31 13:50:28
20年前的三位UCSF的psychiatrists的合著，完美的连接起了科学和文学/艺术”两种文化” ，很牛。内容也极好，尤其最后一章当把他们的观点应用到当今美国的种种社会问题中去分析的时候，会有种前人智慧的enlightening 感。可惜，他们所大声疾呼，依然是今天大部分人，尤其是家长，所不知甚至反向行之的。
0 有用 豆豆小丸纸 2020-04-04 22:14:08
Enlightening
0 有用 长风 2019-12-02 03:09:35
Psychological is physiological. Neural Science still has a long way to go.