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• Problems can arise in a relationship when one or both partners has a very strong need for acceptance. Generally, a strong desire for acceptance is associated with negative self-esteem, or what is commonly called “needy” behavior, which can lead to adjustment problems. The desire for acceptance is an exception to the general rule that like- mindedness attracts and opposites grow apart. Generally, a low need for ac- ceptance increases compatibility with most partners, whereas a very high need for acceptance decreases compatibility with many partners. People with a very high need for acceptance can benefit from psychological coun- seling, especially when they experience significant relationship problems arising from their “needy” behavior. Insecure people are highly sensitive to rejection a... (查看原文)

  Maverick@Walden 1赞 2013-08-02 19:28:43

• There are two main types of miscommunication, ineffective communication and not getting it. Ineffective communication occurs when a person don't know another person's viewpoint. It can be solved by providing more information. In contrast, "not getting it" is the result of everyone having such unique desires that we literally cannot always understand each other. More information doesn't solve this problem. “Not getting it” occurs when people hold conflicting opinions or de- sires regarding the same value. It has three elements: misunderstanding, self-hugging, and everyday tyranny. 1. Misunderstanding refers to the confusion people experience when they try to understand how another person experiences, likes, or dislikes something much different than they do themselves. For example, some peop... (查看原文)

  Maverick@Walden 2013-08-02 14:20:49

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