When it came to the home-for-dinner dilemma, I installed new boundaries, ones that worked better for me and the girls. We made our schedule and stuck to it. Dinner each night was at 6:30. Baths were at 7:00, followed by books, cuddling, and lights-out at 8:00 sharp. The routine was ironclad, which put the weight of responsibility on Barack to either make it on time or not. For me, this made so much more sense than holding off dinner or having the girls wait up sleepily for a hug. It went back to my wishes for them to grow up strong and centered and also unaccomodating to any form of old-school patriarchy: I didn't want them ever to believe that life began when the man of the house arrived home. We didn't wait for Dad. It was his job now to catch up with us. (查看原文)
是真的好看。最喜欢那段讲奥巴马搬进白宫终于有人给他收拾衣柜了，夫妻的对话：don't u see how neat i am now? Yes, and you have no credit for any of that. 这个回答可以说是非常Michelle了。后半段稍微有点political，前面讲她的律师生涯写的是真好，读来总觉得：原来她也会这样啊，原来她也有这种经历啊。强烈推荐。
P.s. Thank god Douban hasn't shut down the book review function. When I first came up with the idea of reading this book, what interests me is the fact that Michelle doesn't like "politics" herself. Later, in this whole book, you'll see so many times she de...
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是真的好看。最喜欢那段讲奥巴马搬进白宫终于有人给他收拾衣柜了，夫妻的对话：don't u see how neat i am now? Yes, and you have no credit for any of that. 这个回答可以说是非常Michelle了。后半段稍微有点political，前面讲她的律师生涯写的是真好，读来总觉得：原来她也会这样啊，原来她也有这种经历啊。强烈推荐。