With Expecting Better, award-winning economist Emily Oster spotted a need in the pregnancy market for advice that gave women the information they needed to make the best decision for their own pregnancies. By digging into the data, Oster found that much of the conventional pregnancy wisdom was wrong. In Cribsheet, she now tackles an even greater challenge: decision-making in the early years of parenting.
As any new parent knows, there is an abundance of often-conflicting advice hurled at you from doctors, family, friends, and strangers on the internet. From the earliest days, parents get the message that they must make certain choices around feeding, sleep, and schedule or all will be lost. There's a rule—or three—for everything. But the benefits of these choices can be overstated, and the trade-offs can be profound. How do you make your own best decision?
Armed with the data, Oster finds that the conventional wisdom doesn't always hold up. She debunks myths around breastfeeding (not a panacea), sleep training (not so bad!), potty training (wait until they're ready or possibly bribe with M&Ms), language acquisition (early talkers aren't necessarily geniuses), and many other topics. She also shows parents how to think through freighted questions like if and how to go back to work, how to think about toddler discipline, and how to have a relationship and parent at the same time.
Economics is the science of decision-making, and CRIBSHEET is a thinking parent's guide to the chaos and frequent misinformation of the early years. Emily Oster is a trained expert—and mom of two—who can empower us to make better, less fraught decisions—and stay sane in the years before preschool.
6 有用 Miss Coconut 2020-02-07 13:22:11
两个大感悟:1. 对自己好就是对宝宝好; 2. 育儿是个难题,只能摸着石头过河。
0 有用 多喜子 2023-02-09 05:13:20 美国
慢慢悠悠终于翻完了!因为很喜欢作者第一本讲怀孕的书,孕中期就买好这一本,想说做做准备也能有不少延伸阅读的推荐,然而拖延如我最后还早产,等到生产完回家了才捞着翻阅,到那个时候已经踩过了喂奶量和掉体重的雷:正如书中所示,有令人信服的数据的话,能看到很多方面的分布(distribution)而不是单独一个平均值(average),可能的话还能按分组情况来看(比如掉体重在顺产和剖腹产的不同分布),这样也能... 慢慢悠悠终于翻完了!因为很喜欢作者第一本讲怀孕的书,孕中期就买好这一本,想说做做准备也能有不少延伸阅读的推荐,然而拖延如我最后还早产,等到生产完回家了才捞着翻阅,到那个时候已经踩过了喂奶量和掉体重的雷:正如书中所示,有令人信服的数据的话,能看到很多方面的分布(distribution)而不是单独一个平均值(average),可能的话还能按分组情况来看(比如掉体重在顺产和剖腹产的不同分布),这样也能减少不必要的担忧… 话说回来,阅读的过程还是更看重种种新奇的话题(比如是否应该和如何训练睡觉的习惯)而没那么看重这本书最有价值的关于用数据支持决策的重点,估计在之后N刷把本书当工具书来读时才能更有体会吧。已经马克且读上具体话题的延伸阅读了!如今育儿相关的信息量多且杂还可能互相矛盾,真得摸着石头过河。 (展开)
0 有用 大黃小鴨 2024-08-24 14:15:47 美国
Just try not to think about that.
0 有用 老白兔累又饿 2021-06-28 14:21:58
鉴于我娃已经两岁多会走路,直接从第二部分开始读,压力小了很多,感觉可以读完。 啦啦啦,我读完了,可以缓解带娃焦虑感的一本书。
1 有用 四维九生 2022-12-26 06:51:29 加拿大
反焦虑鸡娃先锋。love the witty narratives!