Gay New York

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• If a man risked forfeiting his masculine status by being sexually passive, he could also establish it by playing the dominant role in an encounter with another man. So long as they planed the 'man' s role, they remained ‘man’. (查看原文)

  大力水手派派花 2012-10-02 13:44:05

• In a culture in which men regarded themselves as highly lustful creatures whose health would be impaired if their explosive sexual needs did not find release(or, as they usuallly termed it, "relief" or "satisfaction"), a phallocentric（男性为重心的） economy of sexual pleasure governed relations with such women. Sex was something a man did to them, not with them: a man's phallic dominance and "satisfaction" were his paramount concern. A man might have a close romantic relationship with one woman, whom he hoped to marry and treated with affection and respect, but still feel free to use a prostitute to satisfy his immediate sexual needs. (查看原文)

  大力水手派派花 2012-10-02 14:21:37

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