A few weeks later, his daughter came to visit. "What's the plan?" Eugene asked when she arrived. She took him outside in a wheelchair, onto the hospital's lawn. "It's a beautiful day," Eugene said, "Pretty nice weather, huh?" She told him about her kids and they played with a dog. She thought he might be able to come home soon. The sun was going down. She started to get ready to take him inside.
Eugene looked at her.
"I am lucky to have a daughter like you," he said. She was caught off-guard. She couldn't remember the last time he had said something so sweet. "I am lucky that you are my dad," she told him. "Gosh, it's a beautiful day," he said. "What do you think about the weather?"
That night, at one o'clock in the morning, Beverly's phone ring. The doctor said Eugene had suffered a m... (查看原文)
William James说过:"我们的生活在某种程度上有其固定的形态,但却是习惯的集合体.有现实生活的习惯,感情生活的习惯,还有思维习惯.这些习惯系统化地构成了我们的喜怒哀乐,让我们走向自己的命运.."
……他强调说习惯让我们"第一次做事时有些困难,但很快越来越容易,在经过足够的实践之后,一切将变得半机械话,或者几乎完全不需要意识,你就能做"
……如果你相信你可以改变,如果你将其变成一种习惯,那么改变就是真实可行的.这就是习惯的真正力量:你的选择决定了你的习惯. (查看原文)
作者: [美] 查尔斯·都希格 (Charles Duhigg) 副标题: 我们为什么会这样生活，那样工作？ isbn: 7508638018 书名: 习惯的力量 页数: 286 译者:吴奕俊, 曹烨 定价: 42.00元 原作名: The Power of Habit: Why We Do What We Do in Life and Business 出版社: 中信出版社 出版年: 2013-3 装帧: 平装
