In the end, ARGUMENT IS NOT ALWAYS LIKE COMBAT WITH WORDS.
IT IS MORE LIKE INTERCOURSE. An activity that is more satisfying and valuable
when both parties join in.
LOCK 6: If I argue, I want to win.
KEY 6: Ask yourself, ‘What is winning?’ Do we mean their abject surrender? Words
are weapons. Words kill; words maim. Words of rejection, betrayal, hatred, or denial
can destroy as surely as a dagger. Words can cause war.
Argument is a tool with which we can achieve an end; satisfy a want; fulfill a desire.
Argument is the art by which we can connect and interact successfully with the other.
Successful argument, therefore, can never be a verbal bludgeon, with which we beat the
other into submission and surrender.
Winning IS GETTING WHAT WE WANT. If argument is the means by... (查看原文)
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战胜自己的恐惧，直面自我的欲望。
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作者轻视辩论技巧，重视人的观念和思想，是个活的通透的人。
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