From one of America's iconic writers, a portrait of a marriage and a life -- in good times and bad -- that will speak to anyone who has ever loved a husband or wife or child. A stunning book of electric honesty and passion. Several days before Christmas 2003, John Gregory Dunne and Joan Didion saw their only daughter, Quintana, fall ill. At first they thought it was flu, then ...
From one of America's iconic writers, a portrait of a marriage and a life -- in good times and bad -- that will speak to anyone who has ever loved a husband or wife or child. A stunning book of electric honesty and passion. Several days before Christmas 2003, John Gregory Dunne and Joan Didion saw their only daughter, Quintana, fall ill. At first they thought it was flu, then pneumonia, then complete sceptic shock. She was put into an induced coma and placed on life support. Days later -- the night before New Year's Eve --the Dunnes were just sitting down to dinner after visiting the hospital when John suffered a massive and fatal coronary. In a second, this close, symbiotic partnership of 40 years was over. Four weeks later, their daughter pulled through. Two months after that, arriving at LA airport, she collapsed and underwent six hours of brain surgery at UCLA Medical Centre to relieve a massive hematoma. This powerful book is Didion's 'attempt to make sense of the weeks and then months that cut loose any fixed idea I ever had about death, about illness ! about marriage and children and memory ! about the shallowness of sanity, about life itself'. The result is an exploration of an intensely personal yet universal experience: a portrait of a marriage, and a life, in good times and bad.
「You had to feel the swell change. You had to go with the change. He told me that. No eye is on the sparrow but he did tell me that.」在等待我revisit它的那一天。you have to feel the swell change.
好美好美的爱情 the year of magical thinking, the year we indulge ourselves on mourning, let cognitive deficits eat us. We try to keep them alive in order to keep them with us, in the denial of time
原文首发在公众号:新京报书评周刊 “Please help me to die...help me live to die.” 我在一个心理治疗师的学术讨论会上。我们几个人围坐在一起,我们是一个分享的学习小组。我右手对面的的心理治疗师忽然说,她曾有一个来访者来的时候已经93岁了,这个老人坐在咨询室的...
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* Note: This is an assignment essay for the course of 'British and American Essays', edited by the course instructor. -------------- I felt like I had been punched in the stomach reading the dedication page of The Year of Magical Thinking: “This book is f...
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0 有用 鲁蔚 2017-06-14 13:16:12
非常成熟的文笔,无须华丽的辞藻,就能将浓郁的感情传达出来。
0 有用 知暖 2020-11-05 13:52:51
太棒了。震惊于这本书的语言之平实流畅,感情之深沉婉转。以前总以为用最繁复的语句才能描写最深的感情,原来是我错了。在这本连定语从句都不多见的书里,我感受到了对亡夫最深沉的爱与怀念。
0 有用 Bruce爱生活 2020-12-04 10:20:57
一.作者唯一的养女因为肺炎入院,之后又引起败血性休克,不久后相伴四十年的丈夫猝然长逝,一年中她深深感到无力和不真实,在一次次对痛苦和生死的剖析中无数次闪回从前的记忆 二.作者语言平淡但感情激荡,没有写爱却把“死生契阔,与子成说”刻画得入木三分,不禁让我想起《我们仨》中钱钟书先生所说:“从今以后,咱们只有死别,不再生离。”
0 有用 回輈 2022-08-15 09:55:54
「You had to feel the swell change. You had to go with the change. He told me that. No eye is on the sparrow but he did tell me that.」在等待我revisit它的那一天。you have to feel the swell change.
0 有用 Mariri 2024-09-18 15:46:57 广东
好美好美的爱情 the year of magical thinking, the year we indulge ourselves on mourning, let cognitive deficits eat us. We try to keep them alive in order to keep them with us, in the denial of time