There are lots of women who are attracted to tyrannical men. Like moths to a flame. And there are some women who do not need a hero or even a stormy lover but a friend. Just remember that when you grow up. Steer clear of the tyrant lovers, and try to locate the ones who are looking for a man as a friend, not because they are feeling empty themselves but because they enjoy making you full too. And remember that friendship between a woman and a man is something much more precious and rare than love: love is actually something quite gross and even clumsy compared to friendship. Friendship includes a measure of sensitivity, attentiveness, generosity, and a finely tuned sense of moderation. (查看原文)
There are lots of women who are attracted to tyrannical men. Like moths to a flame. And there are some women who do not need a hero or even a stormy lover but a friend. Just remember that when you grow up. Steer clear of the tyrant lovers, and try to locate the ones who are looking for a man as a friend, not because they are feeling empty themselves but because they enjoy making you full too. A...(2回应)
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There are lots of women who are attracted to tyrannical men. Like moths to a flame. And there are some women who do not need a hero or even a stormy lover but a friend. Just remember that when you grow up. Steer clear of the tyrant lovers, and try to locate the ones who are looking for a man as a friend, not because they are feeling empty themselves but because they enjoy making you full too. And remember that friendship between a woman and a man is something much more precious and rare than love: love is actually something quite gross and even clumsy compared to friendship. Friendship includes a measure of sensitivity, attentiveness, generosity, and a finely tuned sense of moderation.引自第1页
There are lots of women who are attracted to tyrannical men. Like moths to a flame. And there are some women who do not need a hero or even a stormy lover but a friend. Just remember that when you grow up. Steer clear of the tyrant lovers, and try to locate the ones who are looking for a man as a friend, not because they are feeling empty themselves but because they enjoy making you full too. A...(2回应)
2013-01-18 04:47:588人喜欢
There are lots of women who are attracted to tyrannical men. Like moths to a flame. And there are some women who do not need a hero or even a stormy lover but a friend. Just remember that when you grow up. Steer clear of the tyrant lovers, and try to locate the ones who are looking for a man as a friend, not because they are feeling empty themselves but because they enjoy making you full too. And remember that friendship between a woman and a man is something much more precious and rare than love: love is actually something quite gross and even clumsy compared to friendship. Friendship includes a measure of sensitivity, attentiveness, generosity, and a finely tuned sense of moderation.引自第1页
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There are lots of women who are attracted to tyrannical men. Like moths to a flame. And there are some women who do not need a hero or even a stormy lover but a friend. Just remember that when you grow up. Steer clear of the tyrant lovers, and try to locate the ones who are looking for a man as a friend, not because they are feeling empty themselves but because they enjoy making you full too. A... (2回应)
3 有用 宋阿慕 2008-05-01 21:01:59
我喜欢他写的前言，各种小时候的记忆，被放大到成人的瞳孔中，像一次醉酒后的弥留旅行。
14 有用 七七|烂柯人bot 2014-04-27 16:35:35
诺贝尔奖得主是常来我家串门的叔叔，是带我买糖的伯伯……“世家”可真是高冷的资本啊…奥兹的文字还是很喜欢的。
2 有用 TranquilSep 2013-03-11 03:37:55
奥兹自己说过，"从一个国家到另一个国家旅行的最好方式不是买一张国际旅行机票，而是买一本书。因为你买一张机票到另一个国家旅行，看到了那个国家的纪念碑，博物馆，与那里的人相遇；如果你买了一本书，那么等于邀请你走进一个家庭，看到这个家庭的客厅、厨房和卧室等很多细节。" 读完合上这本书的最后一页的时候，我再次想起了他说过的这句话。从头至尾的叙述中最令我惊叹的是，他做到了波涛汹涌而平静节制地抒情。在投入与出... 奥兹自己说过，"从一个国家到另一个国家旅行的最好方式不是买一张国际旅行机票，而是买一本书。因为你买一张机票到另一个国家旅行，看到了那个国家的纪念碑，博物馆，与那里的人相遇；如果你买了一本书，那么等于邀请你走进一个家庭，看到这个家庭的客厅、厨房和卧室等很多细节。" 读完合上这本书的最后一页的时候，我再次想起了他说过的这句话。从头至尾的叙述中最令我惊叹的是，他做到了波涛汹涌而平静节制地抒情。在投入与出离之间奔走才是对一个写作者心性的最严酷考验罢。 (展开)
38 有用 帥子 2008-10-02 00:27:19
这是一本读了一会儿就会放下，放下没一会儿又会拿起的书。
4 有用 解意 2016-09-08 15:00:51
书写是整理回忆最迷人的方式之一，奥兹笔下阴冷，逼仄的耶路撒冷却因为他的回忆闪闪发光。阅读中你会惊讶于奥兹回忆的如此精准与情感的饱满读，翻译得也是太好了，喜欢
0 有用 Hitomi 2021-12-31 15:57:10
一开始是为了了解犹太人的故事，看了一小半，开始思考战争和流散对一个民族的影响。看到最后感觉在看每个人自己的故事（包括我自己）。不管你出生在哪里，富裕还是贫穷、和平还是战乱，始终都会面对理想和现实的挣扎，都难免遭遇失望和打击。人生来的课题，就是体验各种各样的痛苦。只是，对于犹太人来说，这种痛苦，更大了一些。
0 有用 水色日光 2021-11-19 13:50:45
对以色列建国那晚，父亲对“我”说的话印象深刻。智慧、努力又敏感、坎坷的犹太人们，有些东西是刻在他们骨子里，也有一些是在动荡的生活里渐渐浸入生命中，影响着一代又一代人。
0 有用 康寺坦夏 2021-11-18 19:30:13
四十万字三天读完，可以说是手不释卷了。翻译实在是好，将奥兹文笔之精美和诗意展现得淋漓尽至。那些平凡破碎的生活日常一点也不显得乏味，那些来自家族历史和民族史诗的苦难与黑暗在他笔触的抚慰下都看起来淡了一些。
0 有用 皂滑弄人 2021-11-13 01:25:30
哎 是否所有爱的另一面就是黑暗。“她早晨依旧没有醒来，天光明媚时也没有醒来，医院花园的榕树枝头，鸟儿爱莉斯惊异地呼唤她，一遍又一遍地呼唤她，无济于事，然而它一遍又一遍地尝试，现在依然时时在尝试。” 一部家族史，一部民族史，亦是与自己与父母和解的过程。
0 有用 静香Sayuri 2021-11-02 17:46:33
作者在前言中写道：“我写此书把死人请到家中做客。此次，我是主人，而他们，死者，则是客人。”读这本书，就像是在回望过去。在历史书上短短的几行关于六日战争的文字，对于深处其中的作者来说是完全不一样的意义。作者是犹太人这一特殊身份让人看到了这一民族的悲壮历史。