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Malcolm Gladwell 出版社: Little, Brown and Company 副标题: What We Should Know about the People We Don't Know 出版年: 2019-9-10 页数: 400 定价: USD 30.00 装帧: Hardcover ISBN: 9780316478526
Malcolm Gladwell, host of the podcast Revisionist History and #1 bestselling author of The Tipping Point, Blink, Outliers, David and Goliath, and What the Dog Saw, offers a powerful examination of our interactions with strangers---and why they often go wrong.
How did Fidel Castro fool the CIA for a generation? Why did Neville Chamberlain think he could trust Adolf Hitler? Why a...
Malcolm Gladwell, host of the podcast Revisionist History and #1 bestselling author of The Tipping Point, Blink, Outliers, David and Goliath, and What the Dog Saw, offers a powerful examination of our interactions with strangers---and why they often go wrong.
How did Fidel Castro fool the CIA for a generation? Why did Neville Chamberlain think he could trust Adolf Hitler? Why are campus sexual assaults on the rise? Do television sitcoms teach us something about the way we relate to each other that isn't true?
Talking to Strangers is a classically Gladwellian intellectual adventure, a challenging and controversial excursion through history, psychology, and scandals taken straight from the news. He revisits the deceptions of Bernie Madoff, the trial of Amanda Knox, the suicide of Sylvia Plath, the Jerry Sandusky pedophilia scandal at Penn State University, and the death of Sandra Bland---throwing our understanding of these and other stories into doubt. Something is very wrong, Gladwell argues, with the tools and strategies we use to make sense of people we don't know. And because we don't know how to talk to strangers, we are inviting conflict and misunderstanding in ways that have a profound effect on our lives and our world. In his first book since his #1 bestseller, David and Goliath, Malcolm Gladwell has written a gripping guidebook for troubled times.
Malcolm Gladwell has been a staff writer at The New Yorker since 1996. He is the author of The Tipping Point, Blink, Outliers, and What the Dog Saw. Prior to joining The New Yorker, he was a reporter at the Washington Post. Gladwell was born in England and grew up in rural Ontario. He now lives in New York.
You believe someone not because you have no doubts about them. Belief is not the absence of doubt. You believe someone because you don't have enough doubts about them.
I'm going to come back to the distinction between some doubts and enough doubts, because I think it's crucial. Just think about how many times you have criticized someone else, in hindsight, for their failure to spot a liar. You should have known. There were all kinds of red flags. You had doubts. Levine would saythat's the wrong way to think about the problem. The right question is: were there enough red flags to push you over the threshold of belief? If there werent,then by defaulting to truth you were only being human (查看原文)
But we are failing to let women know that when they render themselves defenseless, terrible things can be done to them. Young women are getting a distorted message that their right to match men drink for drink is a feminist issue. The real feminist message should be that when you lose the ability to be responsible for yourself, you drastically increase the chances that you will attract the kinds of people who, shall we say, don't have your best interest at heart. That's not blaming the victim; that's trying to prevent more victims. (查看原文)
The overall idea is simple: when dealing with strangers, people default to truth, have illusion of transparency and do not understand the importance of the context. This is why people like Ana Montes...The overall idea is simple: when dealing with strangers, people default to truth, have illusion of transparency and do not understand the importance of the context. This is why people like Ana Montes, Bernie Madoff and Elizabeth Holmes avoided being caught for so long. 最后一章里关于Ferguson的那部分我不同意，这个案子我去年参与做了pro bono，发生在那里的事情不是沟通问题，而就是没有限制的警察越权和明确的种族主义(展开)
Today I came to know Neil left Amanda & Ash by themselves and escaped to UK. This is the time to test love and integrity. Even stories will get weary when the carrier becomes a helpless stranger. This...Today I came to know Neil left Amanda & Ash by themselves and escaped to UK. This is the time to test love and integrity. Even stories will get weary when the carrier becomes a helpless stranger. This encapsulates this week’s topic. Stay true to our realities. This will be a long and lonely path. (展开)
2023.10.27 Technically I listened to this one, but it is a must listen book because it's produced more like a podcast featuring voices beyond the author. Love the music choice, very fitting.
1. Had I read this book earlier, I might not have been fooled by a second-hand iPhone seller lately. This is what I thought about when I completed Part Two of this book, especially when the sentences below leapt to the eye: We have a default to truth: our o...
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2 有用 Axé 2019-09-23 10:50:12
怎么说呢，作者搜集了这么多压箱底的小吃一惊故事然后渲染的大吃一惊也挺厉害的。但事实上，在成名之后，很多时候都是他的editor给他tips吧。
1 有用 Lecia 2021-02-08 04:40:04
听了一半，很多社会结构性的问题强行用mismatch或default to truth来解释，前后都是车轱辘，弃了
1 有用 clover 2019-10-24 04:16:56
作者选的故事还是相当不错的。
4 有用 狐梨酱 2020-03-16 09:55:05
The overall idea is simple: when dealing with strangers, people default to truth, have illusion of transparency and do not understand the importance of the context. This is why people like Ana Montes... The overall idea is simple: when dealing with strangers, people default to truth, have illusion of transparency and do not understand the importance of the context. This is why people like Ana Montes, Bernie Madoff and Elizabeth Holmes avoided being caught for so long. 最后一章里关于Ferguson的那部分我不同意，这个案子我去年参与做了pro bono，发生在那里的事情不是沟通问题，而就是没有限制的警察越权和明确的种族主义 (展开)
0 有用 綦 2020-05-07 02:35:50
Today I came to know Neil left Amanda & Ash by themselves and escaped to UK. This is the time to test love and integrity. Even stories will get weary when the carrier becomes a helpless stranger. This... Today I came to know Neil left Amanda & Ash by themselves and escaped to UK. This is the time to test love and integrity. Even stories will get weary when the carrier becomes a helpless stranger. This encapsulates this week’s topic. Stay true to our realities. This will be a long and lonely path. (展开)
0 有用 姗 2024-05-17 11:15:41 美国
2023.10.27 Technically I listened to this one, but it is a must listen book because it's produced more like a podcast featuring voices beyond the author. Love the music choice, very fitting.
0 有用 濯希 2024-04-19 02:14:18 美国
[b] 听完感觉主要观点就一个： 对陌生人不要有想入为主的假设…
0 有用 缝内裤的Kurt 2024-03-05 00:10:22 北京
Gladwell写的书都有一个通病：啰里八嗦。
0 有用 老三 2024-02-07 11:14:52 湖南
default to truth/transpanrency/coupling.
0 有用 猩猩 2024-01-30 15:37:01 上海
道理都懂，有些点也算有用，就真的挺无聊的，还搞什么podcast experience配乐我真是会谢。。。