作者:
Amir Levine
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Rachel Heller 出版社: TarcherPerigee 副标题: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love 出版年: 2012-1-5 页数: 304 定价: USD 15.95 装帧: Paperback ISBN: 9781585429134
We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Is there a scientific explanation for why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle? According to psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, the answer is a resounding "yes." In "Attached," Levine...
We rely on science to tell us everything from what to eat to when and how long to exercise, but what about relationships? Is there a scientific explanation for why some people seem to navigate relationships effortlessly, while others struggle? According to psychiatrist and neuroscientist Dr. Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, the answer is a resounding "yes." In "Attached," Levine and Heller reveal how an understanding of adult attachment-the most advanced relationship science in existence today-can help us find and sustain love. Pioneered by psychologist John Bowlby in the 1950s, the field of attachment posits that each of us behaves in relationships in one of three distinct ways:
*Anxious people are often preoccupied with their relationships and tend to worry about their partner's ability to love them back
*Avoidant people equate intimacy with a loss of independence and constantly try to minimize closeness.
*Secure people feel comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving. In this book Levine and Heller guide readers in determining what attachment style they and their mate (or potential mate) follow, offering a road map for building stronger, more fulfilling connections with the people they love.
作者简介
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Amir Levine, M.D. is an adult, child, and adolescent psychiatrist and neuroscientist. He graduated from the residency program at New York Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University and for the past few years Amir has been conducting neuroscience research at Columbia under the mentorship of Nobel Prize Laureate Eric Kandel. Amir also has a passion for working with patients and it...
Amir Levine, M.D. is an adult, child, and adolescent psychiatrist and neuroscientist. He graduated from the residency program at New York Presbyterian Hospital/Columbia University and for the past few years Amir has been conducting neuroscience research at Columbia under the mentorship of Nobel Prize Laureate Eric Kandel. Amir also has a passion for working with patients and it is in this context, while working with mothers and children in a therapeutic nursery, that he first discovered the power of attachment theory. His clinical work together with his deep understanding of the brain from a neuroscientist's perspective contribute to his appreciation of attachment theory and its remarkable effectiveness in helping to heal patients. Amir lives in New York City. Rachel Heller, M.A. studied at Columbia University with some of the most prominent scholars in the field of social psychology. She now works with families and couples as a psychologist in private practice. Rachel lives in Israel.
Attachment styles Secure: comfortable with intimacy and are usually warm and loving Anxious: crave intimacy, are often preoccupied with their relationships, and tend to worry about their partner’s ability to love them back Avoidant: equate intimacy with a ...
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21 有用 Jus 2019-11-07 15:36:09
可以skim through的一本书 用自己的经历和书上的道理cross reference 还蛮豁然开朗的。不过感情这回事终究知难行易 但清楚意识到自己是secure型还挺增加自信心&感恩爸妈的。但像李银河老师所说 爱情终究还是小概率幸运事件 那作为一个hopeless romantic 只能尽量提升自我/认清自己 当那个人出现的时候 不至于因为自己的低情商和personal mess而毁了珍贵... 可以skim through的一本书 用自己的经历和书上的道理cross reference 还蛮豁然开朗的。不过感情这回事终究知难行易 但清楚意识到自己是secure型还挺增加自信心&感恩爸妈的。但像李银河老师所说 爱情终究还是小概率幸运事件 那作为一个hopeless romantic 只能尽量提升自我/认清自己 当那个人出现的时候 不至于因为自己的低情商和personal mess而毁了珍贵的亲密关系 (展开)
0 有用 o爱米粒o 2013-10-20 04:40:36
Audiobook下载：百度云网盘。"I'm an avoidant"
2 有用 大体无害 2019-06-07 13:18:33
现代心理学救人于水火系列。摊呀推荐的！
0 有用 彭土曹 2014-08-09 19:18:34
know yourself～
1 有用 启明君 2019-05-04 22:59:24
虽然对此很了解了，还是有不少扎心的段落出现
0 有用 yrosjtu 2024-05-16 12:37:13 美国
Attachment style can change over time. Secure partner is a better choice for insecure people (anxious or avoidant).
0 有用 Ttyyuii 2024-04-21 10:55:19 黑龙江
非常非常好的书。作为安全型，刚刚被一个回避型的人伤到了。要是能早点看到这本书就好了
0 有用 共你風中放逐 2024-03-28 21:03:42 荷兰
当代星象学
0 有用 东坡肘子四季豆 2024-03-22 04:17:26 英国
心理咨询师推荐的，本人第一次看完的非专业英语书。
0 有用 司马光砸缸 2024-03-11 22:08:12 上海
通俗易懂，解答了一些困惑。但似乎在焦虑-回避并存的模式上缺少讨论，这两种模式是如何在同一个人身上协同和切换的？与单一模式的区别是什么？“依恋悖论”给我带来了全新的视角：“人们彼此的依赖关系越是有效，个体就会越独立勇敢”。